Did you try the medela calma ones?
Im not sure what ur saying there hun but thats what families are for, they will enjoy the time with her. Things are just starting to get a bit easier with my lo and I think he is a bit older than tilly I know I havent had all the issues yoh have but it will get better I promise you. She is such a lucky girl to have such a fab mum. Ur amazing and have been so strong.
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If you buy any Mam bottles and they don't help just pm me hun and I'll buy them off you xxxxxxxx
deffo have someone else try her when your not around, try bf then bottle half way thru, rock her while giving bottle and tak to her soothingly, alyssa sometimes tries to refuse to take a bottle off me but will take it after shes had the foremilk cos shes lazy