gangofgin
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a couple of weeks ago i posted saying me and my oh had broken up as ive found out hes been cheating on me for a long time, even during me being pregnant.
id never actually met any of his family, and was really nervous about meeting his mum, and as we are both still on talking terms for the babies sake, i told him id still go and visit his mum with him as we'd had it planned for a while (hes also not telling her about us breaking up just yet, as hes only just told her about me and the baby, so it was quite weird). i said id still play along for her sake really at the moment, because its not long since he lost his dad and she'd felt pushed out as he'd only told her just before christmas about me and me being pregnant, and really it was for her sake.
i wish id not bloody bothered the horrible witch!
so i got there and the first thing she did was look me up and down with a disappointed face. i said hello, nice to meet you etc and went to kiss her on the cheek and she grunted. she then after a long silence said 'have you always been fat or is it just the pregnancy' i was horrified. the first words she spoke to me. whats even worse, is that my ex didnt say a thing, he just sat there. i said 'a bit of both i suppose'.
she never once asked anything about the baby, not a single question. although she did make comment about making sure i eat the right foods (which was another dig).
she quizzed me about my qualifications and why i wasnt working, trying to make me feel terrible. i had to stop working for the agency i was with to move to london to live with my ex, which was just before christmas. shes an ex teacher and was more interested in if id been to university than her first grandchlld.
later on she asked me what my parents do for jobs, so i was explaining, even though she didnt look remotly interested in my reply, then followed it up with 'is your mother fat too' i actually laughed a bit at that point.
she was telling my ex a story about one of his ex girlfriends that she'd bumped into, and she made a point of saying how beautiful and slim she is, and that she was planning on inviting her around for dinner. probably trying to make me jealous, point is i didnt give a hoot as we're not even together anymore.
i was there for 2 days in total, and it was just packed with lots of rude comments or digs. i asked my ex if i could use the iron, and he went to ask his mum where it was, she said 'instead of running around like a lap dog after her, why didnt you get her to ask me herself'
i now understand why he saved me from meeting her for such a long time, just dont think now was the best time to take me there. i'll not go back and see her till after ive had the baby now.
ahh, rant over.
id never actually met any of his family, and was really nervous about meeting his mum, and as we are both still on talking terms for the babies sake, i told him id still go and visit his mum with him as we'd had it planned for a while (hes also not telling her about us breaking up just yet, as hes only just told her about me and the baby, so it was quite weird). i said id still play along for her sake really at the moment, because its not long since he lost his dad and she'd felt pushed out as he'd only told her just before christmas about me and me being pregnant, and really it was for her sake.
i wish id not bloody bothered the horrible witch!
so i got there and the first thing she did was look me up and down with a disappointed face. i said hello, nice to meet you etc and went to kiss her on the cheek and she grunted. she then after a long silence said 'have you always been fat or is it just the pregnancy' i was horrified. the first words she spoke to me. whats even worse, is that my ex didnt say a thing, he just sat there. i said 'a bit of both i suppose'.
she never once asked anything about the baby, not a single question. although she did make comment about making sure i eat the right foods (which was another dig).
she quizzed me about my qualifications and why i wasnt working, trying to make me feel terrible. i had to stop working for the agency i was with to move to london to live with my ex, which was just before christmas. shes an ex teacher and was more interested in if id been to university than her first grandchlld.
later on she asked me what my parents do for jobs, so i was explaining, even though she didnt look remotly interested in my reply, then followed it up with 'is your mother fat too' i actually laughed a bit at that point.
she was telling my ex a story about one of his ex girlfriends that she'd bumped into, and she made a point of saying how beautiful and slim she is, and that she was planning on inviting her around for dinner. probably trying to make me jealous, point is i didnt give a hoot as we're not even together anymore.
i was there for 2 days in total, and it was just packed with lots of rude comments or digs. i asked my ex if i could use the iron, and he went to ask his mum where it was, she said 'instead of running around like a lap dog after her, why didnt you get her to ask me herself'
i now understand why he saved me from meeting her for such a long time, just dont think now was the best time to take me there. i'll not go back and see her till after ive had the baby now.
ahh, rant over.
