Im an emotional wreck

[Scarlet06]

Ive always had a problem with my weight and how i look and being pregnant isn't helping me one bit. I know i'm going to put on weight but im so scared of getting really fat and not being able to lose it when ive had my baby or slipping back into old habits which is so tempting but im trying to eat healthy for my baby.

But this girl i work with really isnt helping, she said to me the other day that i looked like id put on a few pounds which really got to me i told her that its not what you say to someone whether their pregnant or not and left it at that, but it did updet me.

Then she brought it up again this morning and i told her to shut up in nicer words though but she kept on sayin i shouldnt be so touchy i have an excuse to put on weight cause im pregnant. to cut a long story short i totally lost it burst into tears and told her she was a silly bitch and i could be toucy about my weight if i wanted to be how would she like it if i started telling her she'd put on weight.

Feel an idiot for losing it now but i still thing she was in the wrong for talking about my weight when i had told her b4 i didnt appreciate it.

Sorry its so long just needed to get it off my chest

 

[oldermum]

Good for you,i wouldn't have been nice, if she's saying things like that, some people are just awful and don't think about what they say.

Debs

 

[Tick-Tock]

Don't worry about it she was totally out of order...

What does it have to do with her whether someone has put on weight or not...... It's not her life!!!!!

P.S. I'm doing a voodoo fat dance for her........ by monday she should have magically put on 4 stone (that'll teach her!!!)

 

[gingerpig]

*sigh* she needs a tact implant... Sound's like she was embarrassed as she was trying to justify her actions. Please don't worry about your weight now you're pregnant - plenty of time for all of us to do that afterwards...

 

[Scarlet06]

lol thanks tick tock.

Good to know someone sees it from my point of view, and im not being totaly out of order

 

[Emma22]

id have lost it with her too hun, dont worry she deserved it.

 

[kirlykird]

P.S. I'm doing a voodoo fat dance for her........ by monday she should have magically put on 4 stone (that'll teach her!!!)

Ignore her! It is natural that you will put on a bit of weight but it's all for your little one.... I'm sure you look gorgeous

 

[Ebony_Mommy]

Ive always had a problem with my weight and how i look and being pregnant isn't helping me one bit. I know i'm going to put on weight but im so scared of getting really fat and not being able to lose it when ive had my baby or slipping back into old habits which is so tempting but im trying to eat healthy for my baby.

But this girl i work with really isnt helping, she said to me the other day that i looked like id put on a few pounds which really got to me i told her that its not what you say to someone whether their pregnant or not and left it at that, but it did updet me.

Then she brought it up again this morning and i told her to shut up in nicer words though but she kept on sayin i shouldnt be so touchy i have an excuse to put on weight cause im pregnant. to cut a long story short i totally lost it burst into tears and told her she was a silly bitch and i could be toucy about my weight if i wanted to be how would she like it if i started telling her she'd put on weight.

Feel an idiot for losing it now but i still thing she was in the wrong for talking about my weight when i had told her b4 i didnt appreciate it.

Sorry its so long just needed to get it off my chest

look babes.. ignore da bitch..lol

no but seriosuly tho.. wen u feel that baby kick inside u u wdunt care if u put on 20kgs or 200 kgs..

i was overweight pre-preggy.. 13st... and i nearly had an abortion and that was one of my main reason...

boy am i glad i came to my sense..

now im 33 weeks and have only gained 1 kg and ive been piggging out..lol

even if id gained 20lbs... i wudnt have cared.. thats gonna be the last thing on ur mind..

next time tell her to fakk off

 

[lmarszall]

What a cow!

I would have burst into tears too!

I know i have put on weight and it can't be baby. Be it bloating or fluid or my KFC addiction i am really down about it.

So much so i can't bear DP touching me or seeing me naked. I'm hoping when i have a bump i wont be so bad. Poor DP, he said he finds it really sexy! I feel the opposite

Lau
xx

 

[Scarlet06]

What a cow!

So much so i can't bear DP touching me or seeing me naked. I'm hoping when i have a bump i wont be so bad. Poor DP, he said he finds it really sexy! I feel the opposite

My OH keeps telling me im sexier than ever cause he knows im looking after his baby for him... Hes a sweety

 

[LucyBee]

Sorry you're feeling low. I'm overweight too and was really worried about getting even bigger but you just need to remind yourself that you are doing the most incredible thing ever - growing a human being! And your changing body is evidence of that so BE PROUD!
Lucy x

 

[Emmylou]

Ah bless your OH - thats so sweet

at Tick Tock's voodoo fat dance hehe! You go girl x

And finally......... I don't think she'll say anything to you again about it babes - if she knows whats good for her! I felt/ feel the same as you with the weight issue, I'm not bothered about being skinny in the slightest, was my happiest at a size 14 - I only went up to 16 but I would love to get back into a 14 after the birth, I lost a stone and a half in the first 13 weeks of pg, & feel great about my body atm tbh - I'll worry about losing the baby weight when I need to, atm I eat what I want when I want and try to keep it healthy.

Ebony's right - as soon as you feel the baby kick or move inside you, you won't give 2 hoots what size you are!

Her a hug to keep you going

 

[cloud9]

can only echo what the others have said...You were well within your rights to tell her