I really need your help and suggestions, Rob is ringing me in a few hours cos iv final decsided to tell him just how crap my last yr has been. I havent told him just how crap it has - as im ashamed, and worried bout how he will react.
As some of u know, he left him a few weeks ago - partly cos i push him away, i dont mean too but thats just how i cope, i try n put on a front. He just said he cant be bothered to try anymore, he just doesnt want 'us', hes lost his fight to make us work etc.
Anyway, i havent told him that for the last 9 months iv had PND, iv have to have councilling, it sounds really bad but i just find it hard not being able to do all the things i used too. I LOVE leah to bits i really do and would never do anything to put her in danger as she is my world but iv been struggling so much. The only thing that has kept me going is him - but i just cant seem to show him that i love him even though i do - i adore him. Im also really jealous of him as he goes out with his mates when he wants and i feel left out. My mates live all over the country - as i went to uni in Shropshire. He went to college/uni in Cambridge so all his mates are here. My closest mate is travelling n i just feel alone. He says i make him feel guily for going out n even getting txts from him mates - but i HONESTLY dont mean too.
I had an awful time after i gave brith to leah - to cu a long story short i nearly died had a massive haemorrage - lost 7 pints of blood and had to be resussitated (sp) iv found it really hard to get my head around the fact i nearly died. After all of that a few weeks later i ended up having another haemorrhage and lost a few pints of blood
Anyway the reason i havent told him that i have councillin is because he 'doesnt beilieve' in it and thinks it for weak people. Iv been puttin on a brave face for so long.
I just really want to tell him how i feel and that i want him back - but he said he doesnt want that, but i dont know how to explain it all to him and explain y iv been how i have.
I know this prob is abit mixed up and maynot make any sense but anyhelp would be great, and im sorry i posted it in here but im hoping for more replys as im desperate.
Thank u x x x
As some of u know, he left him a few weeks ago - partly cos i push him away, i dont mean too but thats just how i cope, i try n put on a front. He just said he cant be bothered to try anymore, he just doesnt want 'us', hes lost his fight to make us work etc.
Anyway, i havent told him that for the last 9 months iv had PND, iv have to have councilling, it sounds really bad but i just find it hard not being able to do all the things i used too. I LOVE leah to bits i really do and would never do anything to put her in danger as she is my world but iv been struggling so much. The only thing that has kept me going is him - but i just cant seem to show him that i love him even though i do - i adore him. Im also really jealous of him as he goes out with his mates when he wants and i feel left out. My mates live all over the country - as i went to uni in Shropshire. He went to college/uni in Cambridge so all his mates are here. My closest mate is travelling n i just feel alone. He says i make him feel guily for going out n even getting txts from him mates - but i HONESTLY dont mean too.
I had an awful time after i gave brith to leah - to cu a long story short i nearly died had a massive haemorrage - lost 7 pints of blood and had to be resussitated (sp) iv found it really hard to get my head around the fact i nearly died. After all of that a few weeks later i ended up having another haemorrhage and lost a few pints of blood
Anyway the reason i havent told him that i have councillin is because he 'doesnt beilieve' in it and thinks it for weak people. Iv been puttin on a brave face for so long.
I just really want to tell him how i feel and that i want him back - but he said he doesnt want that, but i dont know how to explain it all to him and explain y iv been how i have.
I know this prob is abit mixed up and maynot make any sense but anyhelp would be great, and im sorry i posted it in here but im hoping for more replys as im desperate.
Thank u x x x