I just found out one of my friends is pregnant

[star fish]

just wanted to say i was ttc for ten yrs befor i got my gorgoues girl i had every person i ever met get pregnant and it hurts like hell but keep at it dont give up because your time will come and it will be everything you imagined and all the more precious because of how long you took to get it xxxxxxx lots of baby dust for you xxxxxxx

Wow, I really hope it doesnt take me ten years. Did you have help in the end? Or did it just happen naturally?

 

[charliesmissing]

I feel the same way everyone of my friends is pregnant or already has 1-2 one of my friends is pregnant with her 3rd the now funny thou i een her yesterday downing a bottle of vodka with her bump showing and i have to go to dinner on Sunday to my grans and my aunty will be there and shes pregnant and i know i'm going to getthe whole when are you going to have a baby

My cousin is going to be a dad and my mum sent me a text saying life ain't fair how come my sister gets to be a gran before me then she said WHATS WRONG WITH YOU ARE YOU UNABLE TO HAVE KIDS

Mum's can be so mean sometimes without meaning to be. I've given up trying to reason with mine and let her baby my cats instead. I think it's twisted that she calls them her grandchildren.

 

[serenitylove]

just wanted to say i was ttc for ten yrs befor i got my gorgoues girl i had every person i ever met get pregnant and it hurts like hell but keep at it dont give up because your time will come and it will be everything you imagined and all the more precious because of how long you took to get it xxxxxxx lots of baby dust for you xxxxxxx

Wow, I really hope it doesnt take me ten years. Did you have help in the end? Or did it just happen naturally?

yes i had i had clomid in the end my journy wasnt the norm by any means i had alot of issues to deal with so dont panick you wont take that long!but soooo worth the wait x

 

[babyelmo]

I really know how that feels. I'd been trying for a while when a friend of mine fell pregnant by accident after she forgot to take the morning after pill. I was devastated at how unfair it felt. Especially as she's been smoking and drinking all the way through. In August I found out I was pregnant and I couldn't have been happier, it was like a dream come true. Sadly at my 12 week scan I found i'd had a missed miscarriage. The emotional pain was unbearable, and still is to be honest. A couple of weeks afterwards I saw this friend, she told me i'll be alright and that i've just got to get on with it. And then offered to let me cuddle her baby when it's born (Due this week). In some ways I feel really selfish, but I can't understand how any of this is fair. I'm also glad that i'm not the only one who feels like this, thank you!! x