I get so emotional....
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i am reallly really good, i dont swear or shout i go into my own little world and rock and look like i belong in a looney bin 
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kirlykird said:That sounds interesting Loulou, at least it's quite calm, can you hand out some tips....
i hum
,i do press ups against the wall with each contraction and it seems to help,god knows why must admit, the thought of child birth scares me!
When I had twinnied I had to have c section.
This time apparently i will get the choice..though I am swayed towards natural... very scared at the thought though.
Worse still, I'm worried with my mood as it is I might be evil to my Oh!
When I had twinnied I had to have c section.
This time apparently i will get the choice..though I am swayed towards natural... very scared at the thought though.
Worse still, I'm worried with my mood as it is I might be evil to my Oh!
Glad its not just me then...
I get really ashamed of the way I speak to my husb sometimes, at the time it seems completely rational and I really believe that he deserves everything I'm saying, he's completely in the wrong, a pig, selfish, ignorant, horrible...
Then ten minutes later when I have calmed down I'm horrified. Whenever I get weepy over being fat/baby spots/etc. and he tells me I'm beautiful I just get angry because HES NOT TAKING ME SERIOUSLY!!!! I am such a FREAK...
I get really ashamed of the way I speak to my husb sometimes, at the time it seems completely rational and I really believe that he deserves everything I'm saying, he's completely in the wrong, a pig, selfish, ignorant, horrible...
Then ten minutes later when I have calmed down I'm horrified. Whenever I get weepy over being fat/baby spots/etc. and he tells me I'm beautiful I just get angry because HES NOT TAKING ME SERIOUSLY!!!! I am such a FREAK...
I think we can all empathise with you Rachie.
I feel guilty too after being awful to OH but at the same time I can't stop...
In all fairness though ladies... I've been quite good today
Still going to try the B6 vitamins though that Cat&Noah recommended!
I feel guilty too after being awful to OH but at the same time I can't stop...
In all fairness though ladies... I've been quite good today
Still going to try the B6 vitamins though that Cat&Noah recommended!
hey ladies, just a short update...I've turned into a nice person again..like almost over night!
i am being so nice and loving and even had the energy to hoover the house yesyerday...all 3 levels!
Maybe it's the B vitamins!
i am being so nice and loving and even had the energy to hoover the house yesyerday...all 3 levels!
Maybe it's the B vitamins!
lol well done on the hoovering and the happy you!!
LOL last night in bed last night (I went at 7.40pm!!!) I woke up when OH came to bed at 10pm, he said ''I might be going out with Shelly (one of our best mates) tomorrow night for a few beers but she is getting back to me'' I ignored him as I got really mad. Then I was tossing and turning and he goes ''why dont you get up for a bit and go on the couch with the telly on if you cant sleep'' oh did I flip I got up to go to the loo again and shouted ''why dont you go on the F!@k!@g couch if your so bothered about getting sleep, why should I bloody move Im the one who is pregnant, your so selfish, you only care about yourself, just shut the hell up'' I then continued to rant and rave from the bathroom while I sat on the loo for 10 minutes trying to calm down, when I went back he was asleep lol. This morning I didnt even kiss him bye and sent thim this email when I got in to work
''When will you know if YOURE going out with Shel on the lash AGAIN while I sit at home ON MY OWN AGAIN''
before he got to work though he text me and said
''Morning my sexy I love you loads, see you tonight''
I text back saying no he wont as he was going out on the lash etc etc and he said ''what you on about, i just presumed you were coming as well, when I said I, I ment we''
I felt so bad tee hee hee
LOL last night in bed last night (I went at 7.40pm!!!) I woke up when OH came to bed at 10pm, he said ''I might be going out with Shelly (one of our best mates) tomorrow night for a few beers but she is getting back to me'' I ignored him as I got really mad. Then I was tossing and turning and he goes ''why dont you get up for a bit and go on the couch with the telly on if you cant sleep'' oh did I flip I got up to go to the loo again and shouted ''why dont you go on the F!@k!@g couch if your so bothered about getting sleep, why should I bloody move Im the one who is pregnant, your so selfish, you only care about yourself, just shut the hell up'' I then continued to rant and rave from the bathroom while I sat on the loo for 10 minutes trying to calm down, when I went back he was asleep lol. This morning I didnt even kiss him bye and sent thim this email when I got in to work
''When will you know if YOURE going out with Shel on the lash AGAIN while I sit at home ON MY OWN AGAIN''
before he got to work though he text me and said
''Morning my sexy I love you loads, see you tonight''
I text back saying no he wont as he was going out on the lash etc etc and he said ''what you on about, i just presumed you were coming as well, when I said I, I ment we''
I felt so bad tee hee hee
we shouldn't laugh though really
I can be awful to OH and it takes nothing to start me off, just a simple trigger
Enjoy your night out anway ... even if you're drinking oj and watching them get lashed!
just count it in your diary as another night beby sitting for him when lo arrives and you're out on the lash with your friends..he'll regret it then
Yup its the tiniest little things that set me off as well lol. Things that usually I would give 2 hoots about. The other day I ranted on to him about how he was so stupid cause he didnt even know what it means to be pregnant and he thinks he knows it all but he knows nothing so he better not comment anymore lol he just rolls his eyes at me now!
Yeh the babysitting is a good plan, ill make a not of the dates he has gone out and what time he has come home, then tally up after the birth and tell him what he owes me lol
Were not going out tonight now though were going out tomorrow night instead - still have to watch them getting lashed though, never mind
Yeh the babysitting is a good plan, ill make a not of the dates he has gone out and what time he has come home, then tally up after the birth and tell him what he owes me lol
Were not going out tonight now though were going out tomorrow night instead - still have to watch them getting lashed though, never mind
try having a nice night in together ... just put your feet up both of you and have a nice night.
My OH even bought me a small glass of wine mixed with lemonade up to me in the bath last night...makes it all worth being nice to him
My OH even bought me a small glass of wine mixed with lemonade up to me in the bath last night...makes it all worth being nice to him
kirlykird said:try having a nice night in together ... just put your feet up both of you and have a nice night.
My OH even bought me a small glass of wine mixed with lemonade up to me in the bath last night...makes it all worth being nice to him
ahhh how sweet, my OH would never think of doing something like that. I havnt had a bath for 12 or so years though pmsl im a shower person. I might try having them see if it chills me out a bit
when I went to bed last night though, he did keep shouting in from the living room what was happening in Easties, which I appreciated and didnt at the same time, as id gone to bed to sleep, least he tried though
kirlykird said:oh he sounds so sweet too!...
I'm a shower person but last night I ached so much and I just decided to take a long,bubbly,hot bath and it was sooo nice!
try it it's very relaxing
he has his moments I guess lol
Yeh I might have one on Monday when Im off work and get some scented candles and bubbly bath and a glass of wine (small of course) music on low and no disturbances!
