I get so emotional....

[kirlykird]

Does anyone else get really teary at the moment?

Sometimes I get angry and tearful and sometimes I just cry and think I'm disgusting.

Anything upsets me.

For no rational reason the other day I just sat and cried as I was worried about money and how we will pay for the babies things and got myself into such a state for no reason!

OH basically had to spoil my Christmas surprise from his parents...when we go over to Sweden at Christmas, they're giving us a substancial amount to buy all of the baby things which was so nice to hear as it saves so much worrying and is so kind of them I can't even begin to explain how grateful I am.

At the time though OH told me this and not to worry he was going to sort out everything for me but instead of being happy I started to cry that I wouldn't be able to choose my own changing mat!

A changing mat of all things!... what is wrong with me? Anyone else like this?!

I think I'm going ga ga go!

 

[Emma22]

your not alone, my hormones are all over the place! friday i was an absolute nightmare to put up with, was in the worst mood ever and OH was on the receiving end, poor him, i was shouting at hime and telling him how infuriating he is! then yesterday i was home alone and watching x factor and i was crying!

 

[kirlykird]

I feel like Jekyll and Hyde at the moment, one minute I can be declaring my undying love for him and then I can be screaming and I mean actually screaming for him to go away... and my language can be terrible!

This just isn't like me

I'm usually quite calm and chilled but I've turned into an evil twisted tearful witch!

 

[Charm]

Glad it's not just me

I got myself so worked up and angry at MIL & FIL that I bawled my eyes out and had a go at DH over them laughing at the present I bought our niece. Because I spent ages looking for it.

I've been nagging DH something awful last night and this morning about his family and when he told be to leave it I bawled like a baby.

I feel awful having a go at him all the time and then I start crying because I know how awful I've been to him. But I can't help it.

Its like a vicious circle.

I think I'm also paranoid about another miscarriage and I have so many little unfinished jobs around the house that its all getting on top of me and its silly little things.

Cx

 

[Emma22]

you sound exactly the same as me, OH had been out drinking on friday night and came home smelling like a brewery and i couldnt stand to be in the same room as him, i screamed and shouted at him till i was blue in the face and he just stood there being all calm and patient. i went to bed at 9 and he waited till about 12 until i was fast asleep to attempt to get into bed with me. at the moment he is being very understanding but im not sure how long thats going to last

its normal hun, im laughing about it today but i wasnt on friday!

 

[kirlykird]

I know exactly how you feel Charm, sometimes I think that I'm moody to make him feel bad too...it's not nice

You need to calm down too and look after this little baby and I know I'm not exactly a role model to say but take it easy and don't worry about the little things as much...try to enjoy this pregnancy

 

[kirlykird]

Thing is though ladies, I tell him it's his fault anyway, if he hadn't pumped me up with these evil male hormones( ) then maybe I would be the sweet lovely girlfriend he had always had

if anyone's to blame, i think it's them

 

[Emma22]

totally agree thats its their fault!

charm try not to worry about all the little things piling up, just make sure you rest and take it easy these first 3 months, OH is having to do everything and im making the most of it

 

[Cat&Noah]

Wow you took the words out of my mouth, I was goig to start a post this morning about the Jakel and Hyde of my emotions at the mo, it mad hormonal woman versus sane woman. I keep feeling really depressed at the moment, where I just want to hide away and cry and I feel like I hate my life and Im making a big mistake, then I get the little rational voice trying to tell myself that its just hormones and I need to ignore them. I think I might end up a schizophrenic by the end of this pregnancy from all the little voices in my head!

 

[kirlykird]

That's exactly how I feel...as said though, let's blame that progesterone...the men pumped it in, let them deal with the consequences

 

[loulou1980]

when we had the first incling i was pregnant,john turned round to me and said get ready for the "bitch fest" i dont know what he means,i dont think im that bad

 

[Gnomentum]

Hi, I'm new.. I've been exactly the same and Friday was a bad 'un for me too.. we went to a friend's house after I'd been feeling touchy for a couple of days and I ended up going mental and bursting into uncontrollable sobbing just before we got to her house. I was absolutely terrified about all the changes coming - hadn't made the connection til then - normally I'm fine with it and after my friend gave me a hug and talked to me for a couple of minutes I felt fine!

 

[Emma22]

hi gnomentum! welcome to the forum.
how far gone are you? x

 

[Emma22]

oops sorry just seen your ticker on another post! hope everything has been going ok so far, you had a scan yet?

i need a ticker, can anyone help me with how to do it please?

 

I'm just the same girls, driving my OH nuts, he swears by having no more kids now after this one! I don't blame him.
I didn't improve much after Damien was born though

 

[loulou1980]

oops sorry just seen your ticker on another post! hope everything has been going ok so far, you had a scan yet?

i need a ticker, can anyone help me with how to do it please?

give us your due date and i'll get a few up for you and then you can choose

 

[kirlykird]

Hi Emma22, if you notice by our tickers there is usually a website address,go onto one of these and create the style that you like.

Then it will give you a url code,copy this and paste it into my signature box in the 'My profile' section at the top of this page.

hope that makes sense

 

[Rubys mummy]

It gets worse in 2nd tri
I dropped a packet of ham on the floor making a sandwich the other day and cried uncontrolabely for 25 mins.....much to OH horror and bewilderment, he kept saying "Zo its just ham" while the dog hoovered it up, licked her lips and looked VERY happy with her hormonal mommy!!!!

I woke this morning wantin to KILL someone, I swear no one spoke to me in work till lunchtime as I looked like I was about to explode

Its horrible, I am normally laid back and placid, these hormones are scarey things

 

[kirlykird]

that's the thing with me, I'm usually so laid back and calm too.

I feel sorry for OH as we moved in together around the time that I found out that I was expecting...he's never actually seen what living(full time) with the normal me is like....I'm sure he thinks that he has moved in with a monster

One of these women who traps them and then turns evil

Looking forward to getting back to normal

 

[Rubys mummy]

Have lived with OH for 2 years luckily he knows what a sweetie I am normally, but he is finding it hard to cope with me when I dissolve into tears (whih at the mo is a daily occurence)

He keeps saying I have been brillant so far, and he was expecting me to be a mad woman from day one, whichI wasnt, its only been the past few weeks, other than that had a text book perfect pregnancy

Wait till he sees me in childbirth