I feel guilty :(

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Even though work know I was TTC, I decided not to tell them I was PG til after the scan. Last week I thought I'd wind them up a bit by telling them I'll be handing my notice in within the next couple of weeks, and today I said I was handing it in next week (this time I was angry cos I had a bit of a barny with my supervisor lol). So, they all been asking one of the women, who I get on really well with, if I really was gonna hand it in and if I have another job or if I was PG (she was just telling me this on the phone), and she said I wasn't PG cos if I was I'd tell her. Now I feel real bad cos I haven't told her. Originally I did plan on telling her right away but I didn't cos I didn't want to chance it getting out, I do trust her to keep it to herself but someone might have overheard us talking about it or something. I hope she doesn't think I'm a bad friend after I tell them all :(
 
I wouldn't worry about it hon :hug: If my friend did that to me I would completely understand and just be happy for her. You tell people when you are ready and not so you don't upset them.

(Does that make sense :? )
 
I'm sure she'll understand why you wanted to keep it quiet :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
You can still tell her first can't you? When you're ready that is. I'm sure that would still make her feel privileged and also ease your mind a bit :)

Good luck :D
 

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