I am the voice of reason and sanity

[BabyBrain]

Bet you never thought you'd hear me say that lol. Well it's true! I had my SIL on the phone last night for nearly 4 hours....she's just found out her husband might have been having an affair. He's been getting raunchy text messages from some old trollop at work and although he's insisting he didn't respond and repeatedly told the woman to back off obviously the SIL's imagination has now gone into overdrive. She started off talking to my OH who went into "I'm gonna kill him" mode so I took over. No money's disappeared for no reason and he hasn't been disappearing with no explanation, plus this fella isn't the brightest star in the sky and frankly far too miserable to have two women put up with him so I am inclined to believe him. I think he's just let office banter get out of hand and he's been a dick.....they are going to try to sort it out today.

I am really angry with him, was hoping we could all have a year without heartache or grief and have Albert to look forward to. But if they get back together and work things out we are going to have to be diplomatic. I've made it clear to the SIL that even if nothing has happened if he comes back it's on her terms and no ifs or buts, she's in charge now and he'll have to tow the line.

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm heading back to my little neurotic corner to dribble for a while xxxxxxxx

 

[TORino]

Aw, some people are just dicks.

I feel for your SIL, the trust will have gone now regardless of whether he's had an affair or not and that is very difficult to get back.
I hope they can work it out and do what is necessary to be happy.

 

[BabyBrain]

Trust is such a delicate thing isn't it? He's going to have his work cut out that's for sure and so he should

 

[leannesxb]

God some men are just assholes!!! Why do they need that constant ego boost??? Its just weird.

My OH would have been the same with the whole "I'll kill him thing!!". Honestly MEN!!!!!!!!!!

Go back to being insane and unreasonable its very unsettling and freaking me out slightly!! lol

 

[TORino]

Yeah, I think when the trust is gone it is very hard to get it back.

I'd be imposing all sorts of rules now I think if it was me. But it takes me a while to trust people anyways so I'd find this situation really difficult.

I hope he realises he's been a div and sorts himself out!

 

[BabyBrain]

Don't get me wrong, if I hadn't been pg we would have gone up there last night but cos I'm so close we didn't want to risk the stress tbh, I don't think the poor mare could cope if I went into labour doing a roundhouse kick at his head lol.

 

[keepontrying]

Oh dear... fucking Men!! I honestly dont think there are any worthy ones anymore... society has bred generations of idiots!

i have a dream..... one day the women will rise up and the male will be redundant. Sperm banks and sex toys will replace the only usefull thing they contributed. No need for 'donations' science will breed our children........

Ok so now i must return to the asylum.....