Happybunny
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Urchin said:yeah it s a book with a CD in the back, the CD is about 30 mins of her talking to relaxing music telling you to breathe LOL I listen to it every night.
Last night I had bad BHs though and TBH I found myself thinking of the BH and ignoring the CD
You have to exhale slowly and you visualise that your breath is going through your back, underneath the baby and then coming out of your vagina, like the hook of a j. It is apparently hard to practice until the actual time - the nearest thing to try it on is when you are opening your bowels (especially if you are a bit constipated) don't strain but breathe in and then do a 'j' breath and imagine pushing the waste out as your breath goes down and out. Sounds crazy - but watched loads of people do it on DVD, not one of them 'pushed' in the normal sense, just did the breathing and baby came out! However, course leader said you must go with your body and if you have the urge to push, don't fight it, just go with it. (Hope that helps a bit )