xxsammyxx
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We will be at OH's parents house in Holland as from Wednesday. Its my first meeting with them. I am really really really looking forward to meeting them 
His dad already doesnt like me as he accused me of fleecing OH for money. This is very interesting since I have always supported myself and my daughter, have never accepted any money from OH or asked for it and OH doesnt actually have any money, i lend it to HIM!!! His dad's response when he heard we were together was... "Come back to Holland and get a job here im sure SHE can find someone else to support her and her daughter!" 
I was in tears all evening. His dad is controlling and domineering and wants OH to go back to live there so he can boss him around and tell him what to do. He sends emails telling him that he is cutting im off from the inheritance if he doesnt come back by ________ (insert of many dates) I think his dad inherited a few million from his father in the past and he threatens OH with it. Plus we are having to attend his 25 year old sisters wedding (she is already a year overdue getting married as she wanted to get married by the age of 24!) I am only 11 years behind her so far 
She got with this bloke off Facebook, got pregnant and then was BOUGHT a 200k house by their mum and dad, got pregnant again and everything has been bought and done for them since. He has paid for the entire wedding. She sent an invitation to us with no names on it, no writing just the place and time. The envelope was addressed to OH only. We then receive an email from his dad to say that they dont want a present (they have everything!!! 
) and want money instead and 75 to 100 is required What makes me really mad is she sent me an email a few months ago congratulating me on my pregnancy and asking did i want a boy or girl and that she was pregnant etc etc etc. I WASNT EVEN PREGNANT and she doesnt know we are TTC either! This didnt go down well. OH is struggling as he is inbetween jobs at the moment and his dad wont give him a bean. They never contact me and i have spoke to his mum and dad once on the phone in 18 months. I just feel like i hate them all already before i have even met them.His sister seems a scrounging money, driven spoilt brat. Thing is she claims she wants another baby (shes only just had one!) and i guess will be pregnant again soon with number 3 when we are still TTC number 1. She has everything on a plate and we are left to struggle our way through TTC and life in general. I just feel like calling the whole thing off! Sorry for the rant
His dad already doesnt like me as he accused me of fleecing OH for money. This is very interesting since I have always supported myself and my daughter, have never accepted any money from OH or asked for it and OH doesnt actually have any money, i lend it to HIM!!! His dad's response when he heard we were together was... "Come back to Holland and get a job here im sure SHE can find someone else to support her and her daughter!" I was in tears all evening. His dad is controlling and domineering and wants OH to go back to live there so he can boss him around and tell him what to do. He sends emails telling him that he is cutting im off from the inheritance if he doesnt come back by ________ (insert of many dates) I think his dad inherited a few million from his father in the past and he threatens OH with it. Plus we are having to attend his 25 year old sisters wedding (she is already a year overdue getting married as she wanted to get married by the age of 24!) I am only 11 years behind her so far She got with this bloke off Facebook, got pregnant and then was BOUGHT a 200k house by their mum and dad, got pregnant again and everything has been bought and done for them since. He has paid for the entire wedding. She sent an invitation to us with no names on it, no writing just the place and time. The envelope was addressed to OH only. We then receive an email from his dad to say that they dont want a present (they have everything!!! ) and want money instead and 75 to 100 is required What makes me really mad is she sent me an email a few months ago congratulating me on my pregnancy and asking did i want a boy or girl and that she was pregnant etc etc etc. I WASNT EVEN PREGNANT and she doesnt know we are TTC either! This didnt go down well. OH is struggling as he is inbetween jobs at the moment and his dad wont give him a bean. They never contact me and i have spoke to his mum and dad once on the phone in 18 months. I just feel like i hate them all already before i have even met them.His sister seems a scrounging money, driven spoilt brat. Thing is she claims she wants another baby (shes only just had one!) and i guess will be pregnant again soon with number 3 when we are still TTC number 1. She has everything on a plate and we are left to struggle our way through TTC and life in general. I just feel like calling the whole thing off! Sorry for the rant 
to be honest, they sound horrible!! How dare they say im sure someone else will support you! Maybe their opinions will change once they actually meet you and not just hear of you. Listen, you and your partner will appreciate everything you get in life because you work for it. His sister may have more in life but I can promise you they won't be content if ppl just keep giving them. 
