How often do you DTD?

[Vintageling]

The passion does go specially for us women I think I try and do every other day and then do everyday once I get my positive ovulation test but it's difficult with my ohs work pattern

 

[IVW]

Any doctor you speak to will probably always say 'have more sex' and tbh they would be right in saying that, but i also think, every other day during your fertile window is a good enough chance to catch

 

[xoxo]

I will openly admit my sex drive is pretty much non existent - my poor oh so i knew from the get go, that the only reason i would be up for sex was purely to make a baby - even my friends joke how much we dont have sex lol - probably shouldn't admit that, but were all in the same boat here lol

Thankfully for me we caught very quick and the month i did, i thought i was out, as i had a very strange 3 day mid cycle bleed. I almost didnt want to use opk's as i thought i was just out, thank god i did decide to test. On the 2 days my opks were positive we dtd and bam, i was pregnant and yep, the passion does die, esp the longer you go on, as its all you can think about - the end goal of a baby.

I cant really say if there was anything unusual we did - we just dtd at the right time and that was that. I do agree with the girls and the SMEP - i think that will work well for you.

Good luck and lets hope you catch pretty soon

Thanks IVW!

I think some of baby making is super random/luck as some get pregnant that “one time” but it obviously increases your chances the more you have sex!

I’m going to continue to do every other day during my fertile period but maybe do it back to back days on my positive OPK day.

Neither of us have super high sex drives but more than enough to do whatever we have to do to make a baby!!

 

[IVW]

I will openly admit my sex drive is pretty much non existent - my poor oh so i knew from the get go, that the only reason i would be up for sex was purely to make a baby - even my friends joke how much we dont have sex lol - probably shouldn't admit that, but were all in the same boat here lol

Thankfully for me we caught very quick and the month i did, i thought i was out, as i had a very strange 3 day mid cycle bleed. I almost didnt want to use opk's as i thought i was just out, thank god i did decide to test. On the 2 days my opks were positive we dtd and bam, i was pregnant and yep, the passion does die, esp the longer you go on, as its all you can think about - the end goal of a baby.

I cant really say if there was anything unusual we did - we just dtd at the right time and that was that. I do agree with the girls and the SMEP - i think that will work well for you.

Good luck and lets hope you catch pretty soon

Neither of us have super high sex drives but more than enough to do whatever we have to do to make a baby!!

and thats all you need if it worked for us.....Good Luck

We were really THAT bad, that he would get himself ready for when i got in from work, so it wasnt such a forced session It was also height of summer and the heat wave and our bedroom was like a sauna and my partner hates getting hot as it puts him off, so this was also why he gave himself a helping hand first - i wasnt complaining

 

[Jellybean86]

The month we fell pregnant we did it Every other day or so. A couple times we had a 2 day gap between tries.

This cycle we did 2 days then a one day break. Then 3 days back to back around peak ovulation. Will see if AF turns up in a couple of days...