How Do They Work Lol (Men) . . .

[PixieDust_01]

Why do men think your over reacting when you get upset that youve come on, they really dont think the same as woman, i mean all you can do is keep trying but to them they dont quite see i mean no matter how much they want to try for a baby too, they just dont see why it upsets you when you get all the symptoms int he world for pregnancy then oh hello AF . . . Grr . . .

Its like when we were talking about planning the wedding, he seemed interested for about oh a whole 5 mins then when we started to look online at places to go venues, dresses etc he switched off . . .

Do men even feel the things we feel lol ?


Ugh special creatures are they not !!!

 

[cosmicgirl]

I'm having the opposite at the mo - I'm made up af is here, oh is gutted and wants to continue ttc x

 

[PixieDust_01]

Im sick of waiting now, its been closer to 7 months now, im gettin rather fed up, he wants it as much as i do but doesnt no how to show it very well lol.

just out of interest (if youd ont mind) how come you dont want to carry on ? x

 

[cosmicgirl]

Too stressful, need my life back and to enjoy the summer having fun x

 

[faithangle]

Men will always be men, they just don't like to show their true feelings!! x

 

[corky]

That's the exact situation i'm in hun, causing so many arguments i'm tempted to throw in the towel if AF turns up this month.. xx

 

[LuW]

Don't give up Corky!! You need to bring us some good news!

Men either get far to into the whole trying for a baby thing (OH has nursery furniture picked out and everything) or they couldn't really care enough. It's just how they're programmed. To be strong for us even when theyre down. I think OH is trying to distract me from everything else going on by getting me really caught up in the idea we'll get our Jelly baba before he leaves. He way ofbeing strong.

Most bottle it because they are the 'man' of the house and need to keep providing for the family which they can't do when they're upset.

Hugs xx

LuX

 

[corky]

Thanks hun I do think you're right, I'm not sure what i'm going to do next month yet.. but AF hasn't arrived this cycle yet so there's always that chance xx

 

[LuW]

Fingers crossed!!! XXX

 

[Sunshine_state]

I'm in the same boat, Af arrived today and bf doesn't seem bothered at all

 

[starstruck2011]

Im the other way round - so I reckon it depends on the bloke. Some hide it away and make out to be men! Some (like mine) are gutted you have AF...

My current situation - im late and waiting for a BFP or AF...my OH want a BFP and keeps asking if the nasty witch has turned up yet and he wants her to stay away! lol

Men = all mental .....remember that and its a winner! lol
FX for all tho xx