how are your partners coping ?

[Gem & Leland]

with your new moody , ugly and sick selves ?

me and hubby have a very strong relationship but this is taken its toll , i dont want to do anything , feel yuk all the time so have lapse on housework , his only had jiggy once since conceieving and im generally horrid to live with !

how are yours coping ? this is ment to be a happy time !

 

[Babylicious]

Like you I've been ill and moody, we'd done it about 3 times thats all I'm still keeping ontop of the housework and looking after our other dd. But I feel miserable all the time, he went to footy today and I think he was happy to see the back of me for 5 hours

 

[muppetmummy]

hmmmm, too early to say yet. He's been quite quiet about it so far but I think that's him taking it all in and getting used to it. It was my idea to have another, and I think he agreed to it more for my sake than for any burning desire to be a dad again. I think he will get more excited as the pregnancy progresses.

 

[breezee1984]

well lets see...since last time wasn't the greatest, hubby decided im not allowed to do anything. he wont let me clean, and he doesnt think its safe to even make love until after 12 weeks

Hes just paranoid but ECSTATIC about baby

 

[UmmAli]

My OH is not coping with my nympho behaviour since becoming pregnant..the sooner baby comes the sooner he gets a few weeks off from being pounced on. I guess he should think himself lucky as I havnt had too many of the nasty symptoms and in general havnt found the need to be moody with him lol. Considering its our first he is pretty chilled about the whole thing.

REALLY???????????
I haven't been very moody although I struggle to stay on top of the housework. My husband is amazing because he does everything and it consider it perfectly normal.

What is not normal is that my sex drive got so low !!!
He is very sweet about it... but I miss my sex drive... is this gonna stay like this for the whole pregnancy??????

 

[Pregnopaws]

omg, i was far too paranoid about bleeding to do anything in first tri..not that i'd ever bled... but you know!! And now I fear i'm too closely bonded with the toilet bowl (in more ways than one) to find time to give him any extra attention at night!

 

[littlepip]

I think its more unusual to have a higher sex drive.. alot of womens sex drive especially in 1st tri decreases but you might get it back in 2nd tri lol.. Ive just been terrible the whole way through.. cant get enough

at the very begining i just couldnt be bothered with it at all!!!! but my sex drive is definaitly starting to come back!!! not that he minds

 

[muppetmummy]

Sex is the last thing on my mind at the moment! I'm too worried about bleeding. With James I felt quite horny in the 2nd and 3rd tri's

 

[Gem & Leland]

sex drive still hasnt returned , think i need not to feel nausuas to be able to even consider jumping into bed lol


i just hope i dont pee him off to much , why in preggy head to get extra paranoid

 

[happy-chick]

I have to say that he's been fantastic and I dont think I could have asked for much more to be honest. He's doing ALL of the cooking and cleaning, the only thing ive been in charge of is washing lol. I have still got morning sickness and we havent had sex 4eva now but he doesn't mind and understands

 

[muppetmummy]

My OH doesn't seem to want sex at the moment
I think he's worried about hurting the bean. I'm sure he'll be back to his old self once I get past the 12 week mark

 

[fifi211]

I'm also scared to do anything at the moment because I know it can be quite common to have a bit of spotting after sex and I would just worry myself sick and obssess about it. Hubby has been alright with this (up to now), he's more bothered by my moods and bursting into tears over everything.

 

[Tiggy26]

My OH doesnt seem to want sex at the moment, he says hes worried he will hurt the baby, awww bless! Although my sex drive is through the roof!! Dont know how im going to get through the next 9 months apart from the obiouse!

I dont have any symptoms at all though, no sickness, no tiredness, feel a bit snappy at times but im a typical red head so OH says thats just me lol

Has anyone else lost their symptoms?

Tiggy xxx

 

[Fingers crossed]

My OH is being an absolute angel he won't let me do anything and keeps telling me not to be lifting things. He's even boiling the tap water then putting it in the water filter even though they say our tap water is now fine to drink (live in Gloucester where the water was cut off for 2 weeks ). But then he moans about the lack of BDing (do we still call it BD now as the deed is done ) he says that now he's fulfilled his task of fertilizing me I don't need him anymore .