Horrible thoughts!!

[Emmsy29]

I keep thinking something bads gonna happen and im not gonna have a baby to hold! Its ruining the last bit of pregnancy cause i feel like im waiting for something bad to happen to her and i have to go home with no baby, i have had a still born before so that prob doesnt help but ive had 2 healthy kids since. Is it just me thats thinking the worst or are any of u? Sorry its a horrible thread but i just want to enjoy it as its my last pregnancy.! X

 

[Lilelephant]

I have thoughts like this sometimes and I have never had gone through what u must have with ur angel baby. I think it is natural to worry etc. And when u have had a awful experience then ur bound to worry more. Have u spoke to ur mw about how ur feeling?

 

[Emmsy29]

I have midwife on wednesday so i might have a chat then, i think its cause im so close to the end now its getting scary and to be honest i dont have the best luck in the world! Ive been pregnant 12 times and only 3 surviving babys. Thanks for advice ill have a chat with her. X

 

[Lilelephant]

Definatly chat with her hun sounds like u need some extra support x

 

[Lilmoomin]

I think like this too hun, but I haven't suffered any losses. I am terrible for sitting and thinking 'what if...' and so on! Then she goes quiet o me for a few hours and I panic! I do everything to wake her! But I agree with Laura hun, have a chat with your midwife x x

 

[Lilelephant]

I swear Orlando must be sick of me poking him

 

[Emmsy29]

It makes me feel better knowing that im not the only one thinking like this, maybe its normal to worry. X

 

[Lilelephant]

 

[Lilmoomin]

Yeah it is normal for us to worry hun, even when they are here we still worry, don't we!
Laura, Lilli is must be feeling the same! I often sit and poke at her to make her move! Or drink an ice cold drink

 

[Lilelephant]

Lol Di it has to be done! He he

 

[Lilmoomin]

It sure does!! To think we will soon be tip toeing around so we don't wake them! Lol

 

[smokey08]

I sometimes think like this too although i've never had a loss...I think its just our maternal instinct and wanting to protect our LO's no matter what..

huni and chin up, speak to your doctor or midwife for some extra support and we are alway here with and open ear if you need it. xxxxxxxx