hey girls

[LouLou1986]

was wondering...is anyone geting scared off the birth yet? its hit me tonight and ive realized that i am actually pooping my pants

 

[AngelCookie23]

Yep me too! This last week or so it's really hit me, I'm so scared! Watching One Born Every Minute is making me wonder how the hell I'm going to deal with the labour. xx

 

[snr1982]

yup me as well, I've done it before which I think is making me worse coz I know it hurts like hell. I was 12 years younger then and thought nothing could bother me so what am I going to be like this time round!.

 

[nmf1987]

im odd and am looking forward to it. im intrigued to how much it hurts and what it feels like. still scared at the same time. i never like the thought of anything to do with pain but for some reason this is phasing me too much. i say that now eh. xxx

 

[jld123]

im odd and am looking forward to it. im intrigued to how much it hurts and what it feels like. still scared at the same time. i never like the thought of anything to do with pain but for some reason this is phasing me too much. i say that now eh. xxx

im the same, i keep thinking to myself i know its goingto hurt like hell but im just so excited! im excited for the contractions, the feel of it all, my boyfriend being there, and his face when he meets his child for the first time.

so much so that i havent thought about how scary it will be!

give me time haha

 

[nmf1987]

yeah exactly. i dont care how painful it is seeing my baby for the 1st time is so going to be worth it.

also my way of thinking is if its that bad then why do people go through it more than once. xxx

 

[Skysara]

also my way of thinking is if its that bad then why do people go through it more than once. xxx

Exactly, and my mum had 5!!

 

[nmf1987]

bloody hell your mum is brave. i think we are planning 2. thats what ive always wanted. xxx

 

[LouLou1986]

this is my second so i dnt get why im feeling like this, supose its loads off factors not just pain, like will baby be okay, will i be okay and no complcations as icudnt bare to leave codie with no mummy and will andy cope? its his first and has no idea wats gunahappen

 

[Merfairy]

Petrified!! xx

 

[snr1982]

yeah exactly. i dont care how painful it is seeing my baby for the 1st time is so going to be worth it.

also my way of thinking is if its that bad then why do people go through it more than once. xxx

Drunken antics on a Sunday afternoon that's why ..

I'm looking forward to seeing it my little baby too but I just know what it was like, think it makes it worse knowing what to expect. I'm also not planning on having any pain relief again, partly because my OH is petrified of anything medical, so if one needle comes in the room he would probably run out the hospital or at the very least pass out in a heap on the floor.

 

[Emerald rose]

Im really worried as im going to be on my own this time so i really dont know what to expect even though ive had 2 already.

 

[snr1982]

On your own?! you are brave. Is there no-one that can go with you?

 

[tinytoes]

Emeral rose , how come you'll be alone hun ? . Im nervous because last time was a difficult birth , but im excited about it too , honestly the second your baby is in your arms you'll forget all about it . Just make sure your prepared for the recovery bit , that was the bit I hadnt thought about xxx

 

[Emerald rose]

There is no one who can be with me. My mum will be looking after my 2 children and the babys father doesn't want to be involved anymore.

 

[Lou_1]

aww u not got a friend u wld have in..??

im so excited but scared to.. My last birth was a doddle now ive heard some of my friends birth stories so im worried... i hate the fact i cant have a plan of action and the thought of being out shopping and going into labour worries me haha im sure this time round i know what im feeling for so i will be fine lol fingers x anyway xxx

 

[tinytoes]

There is no one who can be with me. My mum will be looking after my 2 children and the babys father doesn't want to be involved anymore.

sorry hun

 

[snr1982]

There is no one who can be with me. My mum will be looking after my 2 children and the babys father doesn't want to be involved anymore.

oh no thats not good at all, what about a close friends?

 

[bethx]

Im excited and scared.. with my first I wasnt scared at all, wayyyy to excited.. I had to be induced but was still excited and had a pretty good birth ... I think im just more worried this time as I know what to expect and I know I do not cope well with pain and hate all the pain medications.. but hey once you get that baby out its sooo worth it

 

[Rachey]

I hadn't thought about it much, but when I do it does scare me. I'm only 5ft, sounds so stupid but I'm scared he's huge and I won't be able to squeeze him out lol!!