HELP - I can't stop shouting and screaming at hubby :-(

[laetitia85]

I am normally a very soft and caring person, I am not argumentative with my friends but when it comes to my husband, when he winds me up, I can't help but shout and scream at him until he loses his temper. Then I'm the one who ends up in tears cuz I feel guilty.

How can i stop being so aggressive?

 

[Flame]

I wish i knew cause i am the same but its not just with my oh its my mum and dad to. I think its cause you know they will shout back then forget about it. I hope you get some good suggestions

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

I would suggest when you feel like you want to yell/ screa, walk away and go lay in your bed or sit somewhere thats what i do and did when i was pregnant even if i was alone for half hour by myself it helped i came out ok and didnt argue

 

[Guadagnia]

Hi..
I can empthise with you, its very hard to keep them under control. I have really bad days were nobody can do anything right, my oh went out at 9pm the other night to getme an ice cream, he travelled 13miles and when he brought it back and it was wrong.

I cant help my outbursts, and it can be aimed at anybody. I am usually a firey character, but I know a lot of my frustrations personally are because Im not at work. I find staying at home, depressing and sometimes non-productive..

Just try to stay calm hon, Im sure these outbursts will end when baby arrives

 

[xrachx]

aww i was the same, i just couldnt keep my temper under control, when we started the IVF in December i was on lots of hormones that made me moody and he understood that but i dont think we quite realised how "moody" i got! my poor dp, i am surprised he is still here! mine wasnt just shouting and swearing it got to the point were i was actually tyring to hurt him, throwing things at his head, vases, plates,cups,allsorts, it got so bad that he went for a drive one day to escape and stayed away all day and then when he came back i was distraught cos i thought he was going to leave me, from that point i went upstairs and had a lay down and went to sleep for an hour if i felt bad, i also used to cry with frustration, not just normal crying though, really inconsolable sobbing...awww how embarrased am i thinking back, and too think that was only about 3 weeks ago too! it does go but its only after you have had the baby im afraid.x