Hello again......i'm back..

[Samsgirl]

Hello ladies....

Unfortunately my la'al baked bean wasnt meant to be this time...

we are both devastated but we don't want to dwell on it and are looking to ttc again asap.

We are going to let my first natural period happen and then look to ttc on 2nd cycle, so around end of may time.....then i will be around 27weeks ish for the wedding.

although we both want to start asap....if i fell pregnant this month it would be too close to wedding and if i fall pregnant in april, i would be HUGE for the wedding...so may time will make me hopefully at that 'glowing' stage with a nice bump..

this is me thinking positive that 1) we will be able to conceive again and 2) I will actually get to bump stage this time...

i have to think positive or i get upset...

so, omce i know testing dates etc i will be back on those threads too.....just waiting for 1st af after mc...so that will probably be in about 5-6 weeks i would think! xxx

 

[Princess81]

Hi hun

Am sad to have to welcome you back here, hope you don't have to be here for too long. Sending you lots of love and loads of for an extra sticky bean next time sweetie xx

 

[Samsgirl]

thanks my darling....how are you getting on? xx

 

[positivity :)]

Hi Samsgirl,

def didn't want to see you back here but now that you are we welcome you back with open arms. i really hope next time is the one that's meant to be xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Princess81]

thanks my darling....how are you getting on? xx

Not too bad thanks Been 5 weeks since m/c now and I promise it does get easier with each week that passes

I guess you'll be joining me in the witches waiting room for a while now think I'm the only one left in there now *sigh*

You need to give yourself time to heal both physically and emotionally but it will happen xx

 

[Samsgirl]

thanks petal......i hope so too. really dont want to have to go through this again......i still cant believe im not pregnant and keep thinking 'i cant eat that' and actually i can... its such a weird feeling xx

 

[heartbroken]

Welcome back hun.. Its not fair you should be still in tri 1.. I love your positivty and your right about looking ahead, its what i do cause if i dont ill go crazy .. I hope your not here long.. Lots of xx

 

[Samsgirl]

thanks my darling....how are you getting on? xx

Not too bad thanks Been 5 weeks since m/c now and I promise it does get easier with each week that passes

I guess you'll be joining me in the witches waiting room for a while now think I'm the only one left in there now *sigh*

You need to give yourself time to heal both physically and emotionally but it will happen xx

yep im in there waiting with you...or i will be once the mc stops and bleeding stops. got a scan on monday to see how i'm getting on....then depending on when first af arrives....gonna wait til next af after that and class that as first ttc cycle....xx

 

[Samsgirl]

Welcome back hun.. Its not fair you should be still in tri 1.. I love your positivty and your right about looking ahead, its what i do cause if i dont ill go crazy .. I hope your not here long.. Lots of xx

yeah, i have to

i know where you are coming from there

xx

 

[yorksmummy]

Glad you've not given up hope and hopefully next time it will all be meant to be, gutted for you. I was 24 weeks pregnant when I got married and it was great, I had a lovely bump and a lovely proper maternity wedding dress to show it off, I stayed up until the last guests left, I just buzzed through the whole day so fingers crossed you'll have a lovely bump there too. xx

 

[Lilelephant]

It is good ur being positive! I wish u all the baby dust in the world

 

[Samsgirl]

Glad you've not given up hope and hopefully next time it will all be meant to be, gutted for you. I was 24 weeks pregnant when I got married and it was great, I had a lovely bump and a lovely proper maternity wedding dress to show it off, I stayed up until the last guests left, I just buzzed through the whole day so fingers crossed you'll have a lovely bump there too. xx

i have already ordered my dress but the style i have gone for is empire line and we already ordered 2 sizes bigger cos we expected me to have just given birth so fingers crossed it should accommodate a bump nicely!! xx

 

[Samsgirl]

It is good ur being positive! I wish u all the baby dust in the world

thanks hon....tons to you too!!

I was actually in Bristol when I miscarried...... xx

 

[tinselcat]

Hi Samsgirl

Hope you are going easily on yourself, physically and emotionally... am so so sorry for you that it wasn't to be this time

I seem to remember you got your BFP quite quickly last time, so fingers crossed you'll catch again as soon as you & your future hubby try

 

[Samsgirl]

Hi Samsgirl

Hope you are going easily on yourself, physically and emotionally... am so so sorry for you that it wasn't to be this time

I seem to remember you got your BFP quite quickly last time, so fingers crossed you'll catch again as soon as you & your future hubby try

thanks my dear.....i keep having the 'what did i do wrong' thoughts.....but the nurse reassured me 99% of mc are just due to things not developing right and nothing i have done wrong...xx

 

[LoopyLouize]

Big hugs hun!!

Bravo for being so brave
Xx

 

[dita_parlo]

Hey hun, like others have said, sorry you're back here but hope it won't be too long for you. I understand where you're coming from with needing to look forward and keep positive about things. We're all here for you, and listening if you need to talk xxx

 

[Samsgirl]

Hey hun, like others have said, sorry you're back here but hope it won't be too long for you. I understand where you're coming from with needing to look forward and keep positive about things. We're all here for you, and listening if you need to talk xxx

thanks got my fingers crossed for a sticky bean for you too xx

 

[Samsgirl]

Big hugs hun!!

Bravo for being so brave
Xx

thanks my lovely........fx you get your bfp soon too xx

 

[Young Mum 21 x]

echo'in the others really.. sad to see you back, but hope your not here for long xx