Having a moan - didn't want to bring down hello girls :(

[libs]

Well another month gone and we have to start all over again. I so wish that I could conceive with my DH and not have to travel and have just 1 chance of conception each month. I'm getting to the point where I think it'll never happen - that I'm too old and its been too long or something

And I have reached that stage where I sit looking out of my window at all the crap mums who sit on their front step drinking all day and their kids out play on the road from 3 yrs old and think that something somewhere is wrong. My DH gets all upset that we didn't do this 5 years ago and that we may have waited too long.

I'm also sick of hearing my sisters moan about being pregnant

 

[mary70]

libs how old r u hun?

 

[libs]

lol - I'm only 32 really so the chances are still there - but we tend to have babies early in my family and it's 14 yrs since I was last pregnant

 

[mary70]

hi hun i am 36 was 35 when i had hannah and there is 14 years between my 2 so dont worry hun it will happen, pm me anytime if you want to chat

 

[libs]

Thanks Mary - I have to admit that I look at your tickers and think that'll be me

 

[mary70]

just keep thinking that way hun and it will happen

 

[skairdykat]

Oh hun I'm so sorry the witch got you.

Your NOT old!! I'm 32 in August too

Although I must admit the thought that we may not get PG has crossed my mind too. I was last PG 7 yrs ago and have had a cone biopsy since so thought that may hinder our chances.

Well anyway don't want to hijack your thread with my moanings.

 

[libs]

no Skairdy - feel free to join in - we need somewhere just to moan every now and again

 

[Jule]

Hope you dont mind me joining in a maon...!!

I feel the same, I will be 32 in August . However, I have never been pregnant before and long for my first child. You girls are lucky in knowing that you are capable of falling pregnant, and even more lucky to already have children in your life. Hopefully it will be me soon....

This TTC is soooo hard isn't it?!

Jx

 

[mum2be?]

IM sorry hunny AF got you.

It will happen when the time is right.

 

[libs]

Hope you dont mind me joining in a maon...!!

I feel the same, I will be 32 in August . However, I have never been pregnant before and long for my first child. You girls are lucky in knowing that you are capable of falling pregnant, and even more lucky to already have children in your life. Hopefully it will be me soon....

This TTC is soooo hard isn't it?!

Jx

feel free to join in Jule - but I have to be honest - I always thought that it wouldn't bother me so much already having one child..but it does.

 

[jemz24]

libs u stupid woman.... (no offence) 32, 32, how the hell do u think your old.
my OH mum had him when she was in her 40's. so if she could do it u DEFINATLY will dont lose hope it WILL happen

 

[libs]

I read the first line and thought oh...then carried on. I know - I just feel down today - I haven't even got dressed yet

Guess it's just CD1 blues...

 

[Gem & Leland]

and we all get those hun !

can u not find a donor closer to home ? so u can have 2 chances every month ?

 

[libs]

No - we did try - but out of the two who lived locally to us ...

One is a complete fantasist idiot..never turned up then would give stupid excuses. Seemed to just have a thing about discussing women's cycles etc with them I've since looked him up on a lot of forums and he has some v sick (and illegal) sexual preferences (not children...think more woof woof ) Every forum that has thank yous from women hes has supposedly donated to - the woman has only ever made that 1 post

The second one then was great but kept on and on asking for a photo. Ok - but I don't have many..finally sent one to get back the reply - I'm happy to have natural conception rather than donation... Said well I'm not and he promptly disappeared. Got back in touch when I complained to organisation about him but funnily enough I didn't want anything to do with him.

We're hoping that at some point we'll hit ov on a weekend so we can stay overnight and get 2 donations. We're also considering atm whether we could find a donor who doesn't advertise on the organisation site..we have friends who are v open minded about all sorts of things. An ex partner of mine (who is now gay - NOT MY FAULT ) is a good friend of ours and has been talking about to us about what we're doing with a lot of interest - he doesn't want to be a dad as such - but he's still v involved with my DS and takes him out, buys pressies etc and enjoys that level of contact, and DH did suggest at one point that we go to friends instead so this may be something we consider in the future.

 

[monster_munch]

Aw hun We're here for you

My OH has offered his services, but I pointed out to him, that so far he isn't putting a good advert of himself up!! (Plus he was also disappointed when I pointed out it would only involve wanking into a plastic cup ) He had much dirtier images in his mind MEN!

On a good note - we're cycle buddies now, so you can't get rid of me, mwahahahahaha!

 

[libs]

yayyyyyy - cycle buddies

I'll try not to have too irregular cycles

Funniest story we heard - the guy who turned up and claimed to have sprained his wrist - so could you help....

I can offer a ceramic cup instead of plastic if that's what he meant

 

[monster_munch]

You should have said, of course we can help, and got your hubby to walk into the bathroom

 

[libs]

 

[muppetmummy]

You are not old at all libs! My mum had my older brother and sister at 20 and 21, then went on to have me and my little brother at 34 and 38.

I think these days its a lot more common to have kids in your 30's then your 20's. When I had James at 22 the midwives kept banging on about what a young mum I was and were quite patronising about it.
When I take James to nursery most of the mums there are about 10 years older than me (I'm 26).

Im sure it will happen soon, it's just a pain in the arse having to wait.

Im liking your story about the donor with the sprained wrist