Have we timed this all wrong?

[hannah9000]

Hi. Up until this morning my cervix was low and hard and i was getting neg opks. Now it is high and soft and opk is still very negative. does this mean we've missed the window of opportunity? Please help. Thanks

 

[Gem & Leland]

sorry ive no idea ! i havent been checking my cervix , in fact i really dont know whow or what to look for lol

good luck either way !

 

[Becs]

Cervix is a very unreliable means of testing fertility. I check mine but it often isn't going what it should be doing. You'll find temping far more effective. Keep using opk's - you probably haven't had your surge yet. The LH hormone is present most of the month so it will occasionally show a light line but don't count this.

Becs

 

[hannah9000]

Ok i'm confused now. My cervix has (in a matter of hours) gone a bit harder, still quite high but doesn't feel as soft as it was this morning. Is that it?? is that my ovulation over? Bit unfair to have only a few hours! I've got a mild cramping at the moment...gonna bd tonight anyway but i feel like my body has totally let me down