I finished 6th form july just gone and got married in august. DH and i moved up to sheffield for me to go to uni but i dropped out after a month and we moved back to suffolk. DH's working almost full time as a lifeguard and he's hopefully going to move jobs to a duty officer at another sports center soon which would pay a couple more £s an hour.
Thing is i'm still sitting here all unemployed, and i just cant find anything. We've just started ttc, and i'm still looking for a job, but i've always wanted to be a stay-at-home mum, at least until we've had our lot and they're all at school. I know the extra money from me having a job would be more than just helpful, and i'd get maternity leave, but i have really bad anxiety and just dont like dealing with people at all. I can't even pick up the damn phone a sort out loads of things that need sorting. Plus i had a really bad job interview followed by being ill for a week which put me off more.
I'm not lazy... I'm actually getting quite bored of having nothing to do. Its just i actually fear going out and having conversations with people. DH had to make an opticians appointment for me the other week i've got that bad
Any way... Not really sure why i'm posting this. Has anyone else here not worked for a while before getting pg? I think i'm still going to keep looking, but even though a have great a levels i just cant find anything! Everywhere wants 2yrs experience in everything. Would it really be that bad if i didnt work before having kids?
I got quite a few nasty replies when i posted about my life before, so i guess i can expect it again. Please try to be nice though?
Thing is i'm still sitting here all unemployed, and i just cant find anything. We've just started ttc, and i'm still looking for a job, but i've always wanted to be a stay-at-home mum, at least until we've had our lot and they're all at school. I know the extra money from me having a job would be more than just helpful, and i'd get maternity leave, but i have really bad anxiety and just dont like dealing with people at all. I can't even pick up the damn phone a sort out loads of things that need sorting. Plus i had a really bad job interview followed by being ill for a week which put me off more.
I'm not lazy... I'm actually getting quite bored of having nothing to do. Its just i actually fear going out and having conversations with people. DH had to make an opticians appointment for me the other week i've got that bad

Any way... Not really sure why i'm posting this. Has anyone else here not worked for a while before getting pg? I think i'm still going to keep looking, but even though a have great a levels i just cant find anything! Everywhere wants 2yrs experience in everything. Would it really be that bad if i didnt work before having kids?
I got quite a few nasty replies when i posted about my life before, so i guess i can expect it again. Please try to be nice though?