had a row update page 3

do i just attract people that use me as a doormat/ verbal punchbag!? lol
 
:hug: Not fair hun :( I imagine she was very upset but that doesn't give her an excuse to take it out on you when you were only trying to help.
 
so i sent her a text asking if i could get my jumper and she replied saying she was going out but would leave it in the porch with my vodka... then at the end of the message she put

Hope you're ok xx


is she for real?
 
i sent her a message back saying it didnt matter about my jumper if she was going out and that i was ok but shocked at the abrupt end to the night. her reply:

coat is in the porch anyway if you need it otherwise pop round for a brew. it was a bit of a strange night, dont think god and booze go well together ha ha x
 
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Okay.. Does she actually think the way she behaved was acceptable!?
 
I think she sounds really embarrassed, and thats her way of apologising without actually owning up to the fact she was in the wrong.
 
I think throwing you out and slamming a door in your face is one of the rudest things someone can do :shock:.. I would definitly be wanting an apology.. Even if she was embarrased, she could have at least said something along the lines of how she was wrong to do that or someting..
 
:shock: She might be embarrassed but an apology would have been better than just joking about it :shock: Does she just expect you to forget about it now?!
 
:shock: what a night, it does all sound a bit harsh.... it dos sound as though she is rather mortified... but rightly soo
 
I agree you need a proper apology, I was just pointing out that she is trying to skirt the issue.
 
colin said she sounds embarrased too and so she should to be honest... i didnt reply to her message but i did go to pick up my jumper which she had left in the porch as she promised.
 
Hopefully she will apologise in person if you do go for a cuppa.
x
 
:( Can't believe she hasn't apologised to you yet x
 
Friends are like that, well I have been shitted over the last month by a group of close friends, backstabbed and now I feel lonely because they were the only circle of friends I have around since I have moved up here.....

Can you really have a true friend? No because eventually they will shit on you, take my advice friends will always come and go and if this one is the situation I am sure you are better off without her...

Good Luck x
 

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