My fiance is exactly the same, I have completed the nursery all by myself even putting a new carpet in ( it was dark blue walls and carpet before its now got pale green walls, winnie the pooh motifs and border and pictures, cream carpet and pale pink curtains and light) I even had to dismantle and remove the cabin bed that was in there and build all her cot and furniture myself because he is too lazy to be bothered to help. I have had to do it now as due to my back problem I dont know how long I am going to be mobile for and the consultant is talking about admitting me to hospital if it gets much worse.
His motto is if you can do without it being done then he doesnt see why he should bother. I have half a laminate floor in the kitchen, the other half is the chipboard that covers the concrete!!! It has taken 3 yrs to get half the kitchen done!
Sometimes I want to give him a damn good kick up the arse but cant reach- I complain to his dad instead and he does it for me. He has asked me to marry him and we are getting married next year but I still dont have an engagement ring as he doesnt see it necessary and would rather buy crap on ebay!
u need a ring that's bad babe 
