Yes sometimes I feel that I'm being punished but other times I know this is silly. One thing that makes me feel better is that 3 people I know who got pregnant really quickly have had problems. One had a difficult birth and another one now can't stand her partner. I'm hoping that if it takes a long time then after that it will be smooth sailing!
Does anyone know if St John's Wort is ok whilst trying to conceive? Its a herbal remedy for mild depression and might be better than Prozac? A relative of mine was taking it whilst on the pill and got pregnant because it can stop the pill from working, so that might be a good sign!