i havent had my ultrasound yet (not for another 2 weeks) but i have a strong, strong feeling its a girl. i checked this thing out called the "chinese birthing chart" & tested it on all my family & friends & it was accurate. so when i entered my own information it said i was having a girl too! (if u want to check out the chinese birthing chart for urself, type it in on any search engine and u should come up w/ it. keep in mind tho that u need to calculate ur CHINESE age and the CHINESE lunar month in which u conceived. it will vary from ur regular age & month. if u dont convert it then u may end up w/ the wrong results.) anyhow, if its a boy we already decided he'll be Joshua Jacob. Joshua after his father (& the most wonderfully supportive boyfriend) and Jacob cuz we like it, hehe. if its a girl, the first name that sounded like "the one" was Anastasia. i'm not 100% on it cuz im afraid of it being mispronounced or having her deal w/ a really long & old-fashioned name. plus, i want her middle name to be Sky (after his auntie Ashley Sky) but it doesnt roll of the tongue well w/ Anastasia. some other names we liked: Nalani Sky, Kara, Amaiah Sky, etc. but none of them really .. ~*sigh*~ .. i dont know. maybe u guys can help . i'm looking for a name that: 1. has nickname capabilities 2. goes well with the middle name Sky and 3. is original but not so unusual that it can't be pronounced correctly right away. if anything comes to mind i'd appreciate it bcuz i'm starting to get a headache searching alphabetically thru books & online! THANKS!