Frick!!!!!!!!!!

Convinced its over, clots and all sorts now! Oooh and af pains! Will make an appointment to see gp on monday! This can't keep happening, I know it happens to so many but its cruel and unfair! Dh has been awesome, saying we will go doctors together and sort tests and stuff! Sad dani at the moment xxx
 
Arrghh Dani, Im so sorry lovely
Dont know what to say. But I do know exactly how you feel as I have been there and have not made it through the other side yet.
Atleast it is much earlier this time, the longer it goes on the harder it becomes, not that that is any consolation for you as I know it is heartbreaking whenever it happens.
Push some tests now to see if there is a reason so you dont have to go through is again. xxxxxxxx
 
Thank you sweetie. I am deffo going to push for tests - thinking low progesterone. Cycle is only 26 days so could be short luteal etc! hope my gp listens to me - I will kick up holy hell if he doesnt!!!!!!! Well ladies I am feeling bleeeuuaagghhhhh! BUT MY LITTLE LILY IS SMILING AND SHE MAKES ME FULL OF JOY!!!!!!! XXXX
 
You know I think mine is to do with lack of hormones or something too, thin lining of the womb etc. I get my results in May.
Lets hope your gp is understanding too and will refer you asap.
Yes your have your DD and always will xxxxxxxxx
 
Why do results take so long - when and what has to be tested? I am so clueless!!!!!! xxxxx
 
I meant March not May!!! 5th March!!
But I did have my 1st appt 14th Nov, I think it depends on location, my hospital only have fertility clinic on a Monday morning so takes a while in advance.
Then I had to have all tests done b4 they will see you again to get any results.
I have one test left the HSG x ray which is to check my tubes and that is this Wednesday.
But after my scan the sonographer told me my womb lining was very thin.

Tests I had are -
21 day blood
day 2 - 5 bloods
transvaginal scan
vaginal swabs
partner - sperm tests
hsg

I think diff people can also be given diff tests dependent on your history.

Best iof luck for docs hun, dont let them fob you off with need to have 3 x MC b4 investigate, which is the usual, go armed with a good sob story/ reason !!! xxxxx
 
Corrinne, you are a wonderful woman and I feel armed and ready for that gp on Monday. I will not be fobbed off - if in doubt, play the solicitor card is my moto - it tends to make people be really nice to me!!!!! NOt sure why - I think the word lawyer simply scares people!!! hehe! we are pussycats really!!! There are so many tests!!!! xxxxxx
 
Sorry to hear this hun. Big hugs xx
 
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So sorry hun :hugs: It still might be okay - loads of people get bleeding in the early stages. Lots of people who aren't trying so hard don't realise they're pg cos they think it's AF. that happened to my friend and she had had tins before and hadn't had bleeding early on in her pregnancy.

Let us know how it goes. Thinking of you xxx
 
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Sorry to read this sweetie. Hope you can see the doc soon and get some answers xxx
 
I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope somehow it's ok for you
 
Well it is definitely over for me, following pain and lots of blood loss, did another cb digi to be met with the result of "not pregnant" as expected. Although this is what I knew was happening -you mind still makes you believe there is a little hope even when the outcome is almost inevitable. Is this what they call a chemical pregnancy??? xxx much love and once again thank you for all your support xxxx
 
So sorry Dani, I hope you can get the answers you need from the docs. :hugs:
 
So sorry hun. Really hope your gp listens to you and helps xx
 
I read this over the weekend Dani and I am so sorry.

I think this would be considered to be chemical pregnancy BUT it makes no differance what you call it. The loss of a wanted pregnancy at any stage is horrible....

I would get yourself to your GP and get this on your medical file at the very least.

My 2nd pregnancy ended at 5 weeks and it occured over the weekend so I could not get to the GP / EPU... by the time I got an appointment all I could do was tell the Dr what has happened (I had no "proof" so to speak) luckily the Dr was fine. Sadly in my catchment area you really do have to have had 3 m/cs to be referred... This is not just 'talk' it is the one and only criteria you have to meet {they will refer you after two losses if you are over 35}

Sadly I did go on to to have another loss, and I did then get referred.

I would suggest that you beg, plead, and do everything in your power to get yourself referred to a recurrent miscarriage clinic NOW but please, please do not be too disappointed if this doesn't happen....

Under the recurrent miscarriage clinic I am having the following tested:

* My egg quallity
* My womb (with a transvaginal scan they will look for fibroids / cysts / check the thickness of my cervial lining)
* My blood thickness
* Mine and OH chorosomes / genetic compatibility.

So far I have had one scan but it was inconclusive as they gave me an appointment at the wrong time in my cycle. I have to have another one when I get my period. OH and I have already had blood tests (I had to give 14 vials :shock:) and I need to go back for more blood tests on CD2.

I went to Dr on 7th Nov, get my appointment for 6th Jan and we go back on 2nd March for results. As I need to wait until next month for my period to finish off my blood tests and get scanned, I am not sure if Dr will even have my full results by 2nd March? :shock:

On the upside we were told we could carry on TTC and if I do get pregnant I have a number I can call and the specialist said he would get me back in and "try to keep me pregnant" - whatever that means !!

I realy do feel for you Dani, one loss is awful but two does make you worry something is very wrong!

My specialist said from a purely medical point of view that really 2 m/c's is not that worrisome but once you get to 3 there is def a problem.

I hope your GP can help hun and if you have any questions please feel free to ask.

xxxxxxxxxxxx
 
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Sorry to hear about this Dani! I am sending you hugs.. bigs ones.

Love Gizzy xxx
 
Hi Dani, I've not been around much lately, having a little catch up today and so sad to read your post. Did you manage to get into the doctors today? Hope you're ok sweetie. I'm thinking of you xxx
 

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