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I'm a bit p****d off at the moment so I won't explain the whole story yet, but he's put me on new tablets and told me they were COMPLETELY SAFE to use during pregnancy, which I have now found out is a blatent LIE 
I am so angry with him for lying to me to make me take these tablets. I told him I didn't want anything which could affect an unborn baby and he said they would be fine. F*****G BA***RD
basically, he is referring me to see a phsyciologist as well as a mental health nurse to deal with the issues I have about the way I look and also to do with the m/c's. I feel rubbish
I am so angry with him for lying to me to make me take these tablets. I told him I didn't want anything which could affect an unborn baby and he said they would be fine. F*****G BA***RD basically, he is referring me to see a phsyciologist as well as a mental health nurse to deal with the issues I have about the way I look and also to do with the m/c's. I feel rubbish
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I told him did NOT want meds which can cross the placenta and give the baby withdrawel symptoms when born. He assured me they can't but EVERY single site I have been on shows a high risk of withdrawel symptoms and warnings that they should not be taking unless absolutely necessery
I think they should concentrate on trying to help me with talking before pumping me full of medication.
Thank you Urchin. The issues I have about my looks are probably from the fact I was bullied for 12 years for the way I looked, my ex used to tell me I was ugly and was a bit handy, and another thing happened in the past which totally ruined all my self confidence.
I think they should concentrate on trying to help me with talking before pumping me full of medication.
Thank you Urchin. The issues I have about my looks are probably from the fact I was bullied for 12 years for the way I looked, my ex used to tell me I was ugly and was a bit handy, and another thing happened in the past which totally ruined all my self confidence.
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My ex ruined my confidence big time an now I know he's just an *** & some other poor cow will be dealing with his issues because it wasn't me, I just needed to realize!
I agree with Urchin your LOVELY & I've seen you on web cam (Oooeerrr lol) Not a thing wrong with you.
Don't know what to say about the tablets but I know in your shoes I'd be giving him LOADS which I'm sure you will.
I think the investigations into your MCs would be a good idea, I know it's tore me apart & was shocked to find you had basically been through the same as me so early on also. Its drained me in so many ways & the day we get our little bubba I know I will never forget the heartache & want of our lost pregnancies. But I want a reason - I 'need' to know why!
Sending you a BIG hug
I agree with Urchin your LOVELY & I've seen you on web cam (Oooeerrr lol) Not a thing wrong with you.
Don't know what to say about the tablets but I know in your shoes I'd be giving him LOADS which I'm sure you will.
I think the investigations into your MCs would be a good idea, I know it's tore me apart & was shocked to find you had basically been through the same as me so early on also. Its drained me in so many ways & the day we get our little bubba I know I will never forget the heartache & want of our lost pregnancies. But I want a reason - I 'need' to know why!
Sending you a BIG hug
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I know, I need to know why too. It's not fair to just be told 'it can just happen' or in my case 'you're still young you have plenty of time to have a baby'. Maybe they will investigate it soon, but it depends if I conceive any point soon I guess? I pray for a miracle next time. I had 2 mc before Damien, I don't want 2 before I get to keep the next baby
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Thanks Urchin
Have only just seen this thread Sami. A massive well done for going to your appointments etc I know it must be so hard
I dont like the sound of your doc though he sound s like a right knob. Are they allowed to lie to their patients?
I've told you more than once that I think you're too stunning to be a mummy! But I know it does take more than words for most people to see themselves as others do.
Positive thoughts for your TTC babe as I know you'll do a fantastic job as making a great sibling for Damien
I dont like the sound of your doc though he sound s like a right knob. Are they allowed to lie to their patients?
I've told you more than once that I think you're too stunning to be a mummy! But I know it does take more than words for most people to see themselves as others do.
Positive thoughts for your TTC babe as I know you'll do a fantastic job as making a great sibling for Damien
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Awww thanks Hazel
This doc I can't change as he is through the mental health team. Different surgery etc. He was good other than the meds thing, I think he just wanted me to tasle the,m at least till I get pregnant in a 'benefits outweigh the risks' manner??? Maybe???
Here's hoping I get my BFP soon
This doc I can't change as he is through the mental health team. Different surgery etc. He was good other than the meds thing, I think he just wanted me to tasle the,m at least till I get pregnant in a 'benefits outweigh the risks' manner??? Maybe???
Here's hoping I get my BFP soon
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Hi Sami
I had bad baby blues for the first three months of samuels life, and I'm sure it was the fact that I was so honest and kept talking about things that helped me through it
I know its not really my place to say but don't you think you should put off TTC for a bit, while you get everything with the doctors sorted out?
I really don't know why you are in such a hurry to get pregnant so soon, you have loads of time sweetie.
I had bad baby blues for the first three months of samuels life, and I'm sure it was the fact that I was so honest and kept talking about things that helped me through it
I know its not really my place to say but don't you think you should put off TTC for a bit, while you get everything with the doctors sorted out?
I really don't know why you are in such a hurry to get pregnant so soon, you have loads of time sweetie.
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The reason is if I don't do it now I won't do it. I need Damien to still be having naps in the day so I can nap too when pg/with new baby. Being pregnant I was so so happy, off meds, and actually quite settled (dispite the problems I had). I know what you're saying, but I know it will make me happier, and at least give me a reason for my body being a mess. Then maybe I should wait? I don't know. But all I have is Damien and if I cling to him forver it'll never work. If I leave it too long I won't be able to do it. My problem isn't baby blues/PND, it's depression, and I had it before Damien and it was caused by bullying, feeling of no-self-worth, my ex bashing me about and losing 3 babies. I just want to regain some normality in life and do what normal people do - get engaged, have children, have a perfect little life.
I'm not arguing Sarah, just trying to explain if it's understandable? It's a hard one to understand unless you have been through it or are in my shoes. If I held off till I didn't have depression, I'd never have another baby. It's gonna be with me for the rest of my life, as it is with my mum, and was with her dad. Trying for a baby gives me something to focus on and take the crappy thoughts away, as it did when I was pregnant.
Does any of that make any sense?
Thanks Emilia xxx
I'm not arguing Sarah, just trying to explain if it's understandable? It's a hard one to understand unless you have been through it or are in my shoes. If I held off till I didn't have depression, I'd never have another baby. It's gonna be with me for the rest of my life, as it is with my mum, and was with her dad. Trying for a baby gives me something to focus on and take the crappy thoughts away, as it did when I was pregnant.
Does any of that make any sense?
Thanks Emilia xxx
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Hun im sorry your visit didnt got hat well, hope you figure out about the meds thing thats crap that he would prescribe somthing ot you taht wasnt safe.
Good luck with ttc and i think your gorgeous
All the best wishes for you hun.
xxx Katrina
Hun im sorry your visit didnt got hat well, hope you figure out about the meds thing thats crap that he would prescribe somthing ot you taht wasnt safe.
Good luck with ttc and i think your gorgeous
All the best wishes for you hun.
xxx Katrina
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HI Sami
It does seem to make sense and I would be so excited to hear that you are pregnant. My only worry is that after the second baby is born, you could end up with even more depression and have two children to look after. Really hard work babe.
Getting pregnant straight away just might not fix all your problems thats all. Perhaps going on a bit of medication for a while instead of being pregnant might make you feel better.
I'm just worried about you sweetie thats all. I have been your biggest fan here since we got pregnant at the same time last year and don't like to see you struggle.
It does seem to make sense and I would be so excited to hear that you are pregnant. My only worry is that after the second baby is born, you could end up with even more depression and have two children to look after. Really hard work babe.
Getting pregnant straight away just might not fix all your problems thats all. Perhaps going on a bit of medication for a while instead of being pregnant might make you feel better.
I'm just worried about you sweetie thats all. I have been your biggest fan here since we got pregnant at the same time last year and don't like to see you struggle.
