oh god I HATED having the health visitor come round when I had Lydia.
She never announced when she was coming - and she came stupidly early in the morning when we were all asleep (Lydia had kept us up all night) and then stuck notes through the door saying that we had deliberately not let her in!
And then she came back the next day, and started telling me off for not having let her in, so I told her that if she was going to speak to me like that she could leave.
So after that she was like "why are you getting upset? you're getting upset aren't you. I can tell you are not coping." - felt like smacking the cow!
GRRR useless woman!