feeling so anxious

[Rebecca2014]

Ah 41+1 and I'm feeling so anxious that something is going to go wrong
Today i've just felt so anxious, worrying all day what if I don't notice a reducement in movement or a pain that is a sign of something being wrong, can't stop thinking about it. I have my hospital appointment to check everything is OK on Tuesday were ill be term+10 and will get my induction date/time but I just feel so anxious now I don't want to wait I'm terrified of something going wrong between now and then and I miss the chance to save my baby, I've been in hospital twice with reduced movements and not much notice was taken I was made to feel pretty stupid as everything was OK but it turned out i had serious UTI's both times that were missed by the hospital.

Anyone else feeling the same? :/

 

[El1en]

I worry constantly. They say after 12 weeks you can start to relax but I'm 39+2 and I've never managed to relax. I've been constantly counting down thinking "just xx days for you to stay alive in there", it's a horrible thought but I've been so worried I would miss a sign of something going wrong In this late stage

Don't get me wrong the majority of the time I'm just super happy and exited and in a great mood but i do worry.

I don't suppose it will ever stop until the day I die now.

I went to hospital at 37+2 after not feeling movement for a day, once on the monitor baby went crazy and I felt a bit stupid but my hospital were great and said to go in anytime so I'm sorry you didn't have the same experience. I knew baby would move once i went in and in my heart knew everything would be fine but it's still scary

 

[littlemonkey]

It's such a shame you didn't get reassurance from the hospital. I had to go in the other day because my BP was up when I last saw my MW and I was having other preeclampsia symptoms like a blinding head ache and was really swollen. I was checked over thoroughly and every thing was ok, but I was reassured I'd done the right thing and if I experienced similar to come back again.

I'll be honest, the worry never really goes away even once baby arrives. There is always something else to worry about as your kids get older.

 

[Rebecca89]

oops sprry if you read my reply somehow posted on the wrong thread xxx

 

[wispy]

awww hun don't fret, I think its totally normal to worry xx
Just think, in approx. 2 weeks you'll have your beautiful baby in ur arms - just focus on that.

Try to relax and enjoy the time up to baby's arrival