Feeling snappy!

[Bellarina]

well girls today im feeling like poo!
Actually feeling a bit sorry for DH as im being quite snappy with him. I have apologised and explained that i think its coz my body is hormonal so hopefully it gave me a "got out of jail free card" lol. think i must be a bit hormonal...lets just hope its a sign of ovulations to come eh lol

any of you take it out on OH? i feel a right bitch today which isnt like me

 

[Jayjay027]

Yeah I do sometimes, and then I feel really bad cuz he's so understanding and he's like 'I know this TTC is hard on u but I promise it'll happen' and then I could cry for being a right bitch when he's so sweet!

Even today, about an hour ago, I was eating some haribo cola bottles and he looked at me and I blew up! I was like 'WHAT R U LOOKIN AT?? UR ALWAYS LOOKIN AND MAKIN FACES' and then he said 'I just think for TTC u should eat an apple instead of haribo' and I was like 'I'LL EAT WHAT I WANT!'

No need for that. He was only being honest lol.

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[kanga86]

I have a go at my oh all the time when I'm a bit hormonal! I know I'm doing it, but still can't stop it from happening! I snapped the other day about him not putting his shoes on the shoe rack, there was no need to get that angry about it but I could stop it!

Ah well just think of it as practice when we ar extremely hormonal pregnant women it gets the oh's prepared some what xx

 

[leesey]

I've been snappy today, and secretly a bit teary but he doesn't know that. I was feeling so positive yesterday because I finally knew that I had ovulated (my first time knowing for sure) and we had dtd yesterday morning. I had planned on jumping his bones again last night or this morning (well I tried both last night and this morning) but we didn't cos he didn't feel like it.
I feel annoyed at him but at the same time I have purposefully avoided putting him under any pressure to 'perform' as I want to keep sex sexy.
So I've been crabby today and getting upset at him, because I just feel a wee bit annoyed that at 1dpo we've only done it once during my fertile period He just doesn't know that's the reason.

 

[kanga86]

I know how u feel leesey, I luckily managed to jump oh last night but felt as though I couldn't tell him I got a pos opk! He knows I have the opk's but I don't want to pressure him into dtd. Gonna try again tonight but he might be a bit suspicious as I don't generally ask, so will probably not get any more bd in this cycle. Not that he doesn't wan to try for a baby but think if he knew it could happen it might stop him, if that makes sense! I am so scared to try again but have no idea on his thoughts about it, other than he wants to be a daddy soon!

That is so rambled and mixed up so if u understood me I will be surprised. xx

 

[Jayjay027]

Totally understand u kanga!!

I don't generally initiate DTD either, so last month when I was secretly SMEPing he was like 'what has gotten into u??' But I didn't want to tell him about SMEP because I was afraid it might freak him out. He does want a baby, and soon, but I don't think he could handle the technicalities.

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[TaffyRose]

I understand where you're all coming from, my OH would be really put off if I told him it was my fertile time, etc as he just wants to bd and become pregnant - if only it was that simple. I did start instigating it a lot and he was really pleased but did question me so I told him it was my hormones coming alive after coming off the pill Now I just casually get into bed wearing sexy undies and 9 times out of 10 he instigates it This month I have not bothered with opks and forgotten all about ttc and we've bd more than any other month just because we're chilled and happy xx

 

[Bellarina]

Thanks girls im so glad its not just me!!
Iv snapped over really silly things to him today. it hasnt helped mind that my back has been in agony so thats prob made me feel worse.

Iv gota be honest iv been quite open with my DH and explained to him that we are using the smep plan this month and that im monitoring my ovulations etc. I dont think it bothers him as he wants a baby too, and at the end of the day hes getting lots of sex so hes not going to complain lol
i do think he thinks im going a bit ott tho but i dont think he'll say anything incase the sexy time stops lol

He also knows from me telling him that the women in my family generally struggle to conceive and have all at some point suffered miscarriages so he kinda understands why im being so specific and detailed with what i do. I only found out last night off my gramp (not that i asked, he kinda blurted it out), that he and my nan were trying for 2 years to conceive my aunty, and i know my mum took a year to conceive her first baby which sadly she lost at 3 months. my aunty has had 5 miscarriages also. So im feeling a bit stressed that we mayhave probs...but i know stress makes it harder etc so im all like grrr lol

so glad i can vent on here as DH would think i was mad lol

xxxxx

 

[leesey]

I know what you mean Bellarina, if I wasn't able to come on here to discuss and vent, I know I would put him off for sure.

I'm the same as kanga, jayjay and taffy in that DH is on board with the babymaking, talks about it quite often, and is definitely making an effort as far as he's concerned. I've deliberately not told him any technical details, too unsexy as far as I'm concerned and I don't want him to look at me in a different way, or for him to think I see him as a babymaking machine!!

He is of the opinion that we dtd and bamn make a baby, but doesn't really get quite how often or when we will have to do it for maximum success. I've explained to him it will probably take us a while, but he doesn't realise how upset I get at the thought of it taking ages. My personal goal is to be mummy by summer, he knows this and talks about it, but doesn't really equate this with getting his arse into gear and pregnifying me!!

He hasn't noticed a difference in me initiating, as I have always intitiated a lot, but he has probably noticed my disappointment and upset when I try to initiate and he's too tired. I've done the same as Taffy and casually swanned to bed in my sexy gear and waited for him to initiate. Worked fine on honeymoon when we had all the time in the world but he's studying full time right now and doesn't really seem up for it most nights

I'm just hoping our once during LH surge is enough this month, but I'm not holding out much hope