feeling depressed!!!!

[lucie_anne]

hi everyone im currently 28 weeks pregnant and everything is going fine!
the last few weeks have been hard. i moved in with my boyfriend and his parents about a year ago but recently im feeling depressed like i dont want to be here i miss my mum terribly she doesnt live far away but i just keep getting feelings like i hate my boyfirends parents and i just want to go back to my old house. another thing i feel like my boyfriends mum is "taking over" and i feel she thinks i cant cope with having a baby as i am only 19.
is anybody else feeling down around this time--anybodys help is appreciated
thanks

 

[evie_smith]

aww hun why dont you and your bf get a place of your own then you can be independant or just rent if you cant afford to buy if you have low income there is money you can clain you just have to do whats best for baby she might be like that now as well but if she just gets too much when baby is here just tell her to back off x x x you feeling any better yet? if not a good night sleep might help hun x

 

[laura dec 1988]

hey, i agree with Evie hun, you should look into gettin a place of your own. You have to think how ur gunna feel when the baby is born, and whats best for the baby?? Plus i think all new mums need there own space, to adapt to been new mums and getting into a new sturdy rountine with baby. Maybe just sit your partner down and explain how your feelin hunni. A lot of it is probs your hormones, I could cry at the slightest thing at the moment and although i have my own place, i miss my mum all the time

Hope you feel better soon hun xx

 

[Toonlass]

Anti natal deppression is common hun. I suffered terribly last pregnancy with it. Talk to your MW or doctor, they may be able to help you xx

 

[lucie_anne]

we are currently trying to get our own place but no luck so far money is really low, and we are struggling
i have been to my doctor and she said there is nothing that she can do for me.

 

[Toonlass]

That is unacceptable hun, when i seen my doc with anti natal depression i was sent straight to a councilor for support. There are also mild anti depressants you can take. I would see another doc to be honest, one that won't dismiss you xx

 

[lucie_anne]

thankyou for the help will try and book on monday!!

 

[Toonlass]

Good luck xx

 

[joanna0110]

Hope you feeling a little better. I agree with the others about finding a new place, things will only get worse when you have the baby if you find your MIL over bearing now!