Feel really off!? Update* (1cm dilated 3/5 engaged induction Saturday)

[millielaura]

I can't believe he's done that a couple days before your baby is going to be born! And you could well of gone into labour yourself too!
Strange he gets all funny after going out..is he scared of the life change etc baby will bring ? Does he go out a lot? Xx

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[SophD]

What an arse! I think all men have these freak outs to a degree.. my hubby has every time! Stupid idiots lol. Try not to let him upset u, its not good for you or baby. xxx

 

[honeybear]

I've still not spoken to him I'm up bright and early to get everything sorted today
Think my plug may be working its way away starting to have increased ewcm snotty stuff this morning
Felt so sick when I woke up!
I can't believe this time tomorrow I'll be preparing for a baby !

Had his cousin on the phone in bits about what's going on saying she can't believe all this is happening before his induction and is there anyway I'd let him be there after this
TBH I don't know how to feel as emotions are high and he's left me on an off through pregnancy for nights out
What should I do??? Xxx

 

[rachaell]

Aw hunny its up to you but I very hard choice. He has been a total idiot and needs to apologise asap which i hope he does today, it is inexcusable! Huge hugs this is so unfair so close to labour x

 

[honeybear]

I've lost some more of my plug coming out the bath xxx

 

[Eryinera]

Good luck hun x x

 

[SophD]

Hope all is going ok xx

 

[redbear]

Aww love, Your OH sounds like he is acting like a twit. In my experience you need to talk face to face not through family etc, he will have to buck his ideas up because nights out are rare with kiddies to look after.
Sorry your been put through this but do what makes you feel comfortable, how will he act on the day if you did let him go?
You wont have time to pander to a fully grown toddler during labour... not saying he is i just know some men get into a sulk and it would just stress me out. xxx

 

[honeybear]

Hiya ladies nothing major has happened naturally my bed is booked for midday
They aren't bringing me in any sooner because maternity is packed!
Induction begins today so I will keep you all updated on this thread as things happen x
Feel really rubbish with headaches

I've fully lost it with the oh he's at his mums told him I don't want him there for being so insensitive
He really does sulk ive not even heard of him since last night ?? And I'm being induced this afternoon such a mess!
Just trying to focus on me and bubs x

 

[redbear]

Hiya ladies nothing major has happened naturally my bed is booked for midday
They aren't bringing me in any sooner because maternity is packed!
Induction begins today so I will keep you all updated on this thread as things happen x
Feel really rubbish with headaches

I've fully lost it with the oh he's at his mums told him I don't want him there for being so insensitive
He really does sulk ive not even heard of him since last night ?? And I'm being induced this afternoon such a mess!
Just trying to focus on me and bubs x

You and baby are the most important. Im sorry this is happenin gon your special day, it sounds like he needs to grow up! Some men think that they can act like teenagers all their life it doesnt work when you have a family. I hope everything goes smoothly i think with you already loosing your plug it will work!! xxx

 

[SophD]

Oooohhhh good luck!! Just focus on u and baby. Cant wait for an update xxx

 

[honeybear]

Feel sick with nerves xx

 

[rachaell]

Good luck, hope its going well xx

 

[honeybear]

Induction begun

Had a cervix check and sweep still only 1cm, ctg on baby ok pre 24 hour pessery
Pessery put in and baby monitored again everything ok
Wil be checked in 8 hours again no pains as of yet although lost some more of my plug x

 

[redbear]

Sounds like its a good start xxx

 

[millielaura]

Eeeeeek good luck! x

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[Eryinera]

Oooooooooooo good luck! !!!!!!!!!

 

[bellecat]

Good luck!! xxx

 

[lisey]

Lots of luck. Hope things get moving for you soon xx

 

[Dovekie]

Sorry to hear about the problems you're having with your partner. I argue with mine every day at the moment, so I know how stressful it is!

Good luck! Exciting!