feel like im going to breakdown or do something i regret...

[prettypenguin]

Charlie has been up since 6am... And will not go to sleep.

What he will do, is fucking scream the house down!


Might be joining him soon!

 

[katie_lou]

Awwww hun I really hope ur ok . Could u maby take your LO out for a walk in the pram to help get him to sleep xxx

 

[jojo_2012]

That's a long time poor you!! Can you take him out for a walk? maybe he's overtired now, it might refresh you too.

 

[Nic36]

Awww...big hugs to you. Hope your LO gives you some peace this afternoon. X

 

[Olive]

Hope you're ok now. How about the car?

X


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[prettypenguin]

He's just gone to sleep. I had an hour break from him whilst i was on my driving lesson but my auntie had to go soon after. I've tried absplutely everything, I even got him up a couple of times. I just don't know what I'm doing or where on going wrong, I feel like a newbie looking after someone else's baby... I'm just on the verge of tears and kept messing up in my lesson, things that I know I can do. Grrr. And I just keep thinking what the hell am I gonna do when number 2 arrives :,( go officially insane. I hope he sleeps for like 3 hours or something so I can pull myself together... Sorry girls feel like all i do lately is moan and stress out x

 

[jojo_2012]

It'll all have changed before number 2 comes and think what a pro you'll be having just done it all!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Moan and rant away babe
Ur not doing anything wrong at all hun, He seems to be over tired.. Or over stimulated.. Or both! The more stressed u get the more stress he will get try and relax babe
Can someone have him for an hour while u soak in the bath or something?xxx

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Hold on number 2... Have I missed something???

 

[ZMD]

Hugs hun. Is he teething or anything? Hope he wakes in a better mood xx

 

[prettypenguin]

I don't even know what's up with him... He's just woken up so that's 25 mins...he's now blowing raspberries in bed. Tried giving him milk and he didn't want it so I've left him up there with his music playing. Feel so annoyed, just give me a few hours you little git. Nope, noone to take him... My auntie is having him tomorrow so I can do Kirsty stuff and not Mum stuff. Now he's screaming again... I don't even think he can have anything yet its not been 4 hours.


Yeah JM I'm expecting again, sometime around December (dont know the date yet so no ticker) x

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Omg massive congrats!! How did I miss it??!! Was it planned or a little surprise??
Have you tried amber bracelets? I was sceptical but they seemed to stop Lily's scream outbursts by the next day and she's always been chilled with her teething..

 

[prettypenguin]

Yeah he just pulls it off...I might go and dig it out. I've just gone to the shop in mismatched clothes, hagrid hair and no coat dragged him out of bed to go get teething gel thinking the walk will soothe him. Got home he was smiley until we went into his room and he started crying...he won't sleep anywhere else except the pram and I really dont have the enrgy to go on a big massive walk today, feel like im gonna fall over. I've just put heaps of bonjela on his dummy and left him to whibge, I can't go up there I feel like I'm gonna throttle him, my hearts beating really fast and I feel suripus with him yhat he is playing up today. Feel like a crap person and don't know what I'm thinking having another one, swear to god if this one is as bad as charlie its going in the bin!

It was a suprise BTW JM, well surprise being the understatement, I've practically been a virgin Mary since October! X

 

[leannesxb]

Oh hun I know this feeling well. Sometimes its just so stressful and it does something inside you which makes you so tense and agitated I don't know what it is. It doesn't make you a bad mum feeling that way hun its something if we were honest everyone has had at some point. XXXXXX

 

[hugsy]

Oh hun sorry your having such a hard time . Afraid i dont have any ideas just but maybe id its not teeth that he night sense something is up up , have you only just found out your pregnant again ? Just a guess but dont they say babies kinda pick up on vibes

 

[prettypenguin]

No I found out about 2 weeks ago, to be honest I've just pushed it to the back of my mind as its just overwheming me the more I think about it. I'm worrying I will be trapped at home when no. 2 arrives and that I won't be abke to cope/keep them both happy or Charlie will be left out. I get stressed a lot more when he's playing up as I always think that by the end of this year I will have this twice. I so hope number 2 is good and either never gets teeth or doesn't feel them coming through. I just want to feel in control again and feel happy about this pregnancy, cause at the minute I really don't x

 

[Jayceesmumma]

U defo need some chill time.. Don't think of this pregnancy as a bad thing, u need to get ur head around it and try and think positive.. Look at all the positives of having kids close together.. He can sense something is up.. What's the difference in pram and cot? Bedding? Mattress firmness? Have you tried propping the mattress up a bit with a blanket? Does he need a comfort blanket? Is his cot too big for him? Maybe a crib would make it feel like a pram.. He prob won't be in it long but it might help for now, plus it won't go to waste with another one coming..

 

[Jayceesmumma]

My sister has a little seat that vibrates like a car that's the only place my nephew will sleep he was a terror.. It's in mothercare x

 

[My1stBaby]

I don't really have any advice for you just wanted to say you're not a bad mum and you're not on your own, we all feel this is someway sometimes. Maybe its just an off day and he'll be feeling better tomoro? Oh actually bit of advice maybe, In my area there's a nursery that does 'mini-breaks' that are 3 1/2 hours long n cost 20 quid would u be interested in taking him to something like that? Maybe ring round some nurseries in your area. Gives u a break and he will get lots of interaction and stimulation. Then I'm sure you'll find yourself missing him and enjoy him when he's back home with you xxxx

 

[LoopyLouize]

Aww Hun

If it gets to much for you tomorrow give me a shout. I will be in your area at some point tomorrow. X