Esperanza... My approach is relaxed this month, I have put everything to the back of my head, ovulation keeps popping up here and there and obviously i would be overjoyed if i were pregnant, but I'm trying not to think about OV and TTC so much. Im not taking any vitamins anymore, or giving up stuff... I'm enjoying life.. well sort of (im a third year law student, so cant really enjoy life as much as i would like). I like your approach Esperanza... its laid back and relaxed, I woudn't worry too much about the doctors etc, My friend is due to have her baby next month and she was trying 9 years, my other friend had her baby after 10 years of trying and there was NOTHING medically or physically wrong with either of them, I have a strong belief in God, and I really do believe that whenever god thinks we're ready he wil bless us all with healthy babies... xxx