purplebluered
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I'm guessing it's normal to feel overwhelmed and emotional after a birth...especially with learning how to live with a newborn baby, who has turned your life upside down, particularly if the labour was traumatic or difficult. I'm just wondering how long that takes to settle down, but I guess that's a bit like asking how long is a piece of string??? I had a difficult labour with an awful midwife (who I've made a formal complaint about) and ended up with failed forceps and emergency section. I'm still feeling emotional at times, not everytime I think about it, but I do get really jealous when I hear about people who managed to have a natural delivery. I feel almost cheated out of experiencing the natural delivery and of having more of a normality in life after the birth i.e. being able to move about more and less pain post being chopped in half. I also feel bad for DH as he took a month off work and he had to do EVERYTHING the first few days and still does a lot now and I feel like he's been cheated too...though he keeps telling me it's all ok and he doesn't mind. He's been absolutely wonderful, really amazing and incredibly supportive. I don't know what the point of this thread is? I guess to be reassured that what I'm feeling is normal and it will pass? I guess I need to come to terms with the fact I ended up with a section, don't get me wrong I'm so glad both me and Isaac are happy and healthy...and I guess the emotions will pass. I talked to the doctor and a midwife in depth while I was still in hospital and I know that the section was the ONLY option there was absolutely no other way around and nothing I could've done would have changed the outcome.
Please tell me I'm normal?! How long will it take to pass?? I feel like it should have passed by now...
Helen
Please tell me I'm normal?! How long will it take to pass?? I feel like it should have passed by now...
Helen