Wow there is sooo much newbies in this forum.. I only recognise afew names!!! and I have only been away since end of July!!!!!!!
Well just to let you all know, I stopped ttc after 19 months of nothing in July. We never started using contraception again we just didnt BD as much... we sold our first house and moved into a new big place, and we also set the date for our wedding and have been planning like mad!!! So yes the last 4 months have been crazy!!!!!!
However after alot of discussion in the last week or so we both realised that the new place and wedding mean ziltch... and now that we are back settled again we realise the only thing thats missing is still a baby.
We dont see what difference a wedding ring on my finger and a piece of paper will make.... we both just want a baby.
So we are back to TTC.... perhaps the 4 months will have done us the world of good as we did get very stressed at one point.
I have the fertility clinic again in January for our 6 month check up.
The only thing worrying me is i have not cancelled my wedding, its April 2009 so approx 16/17 months away, the very very very latest i can get a dress and organise things would be June next year. Iv booked my photographer, florist, band, piper, venue etc already so really its just for dresses cake favours invites etc.... we are praying i fall pregnant before June.
I am crossing my fingers and toes!!! But we have agreed mutually if it doesnt happen by June then we will go a head with the wedding and take a break again... as we dont want to go down the same route as we have been down.
Right... am away to read 4 months of posts to catch up on you all!!!
Well just to let you all know, I stopped ttc after 19 months of nothing in July. We never started using contraception again we just didnt BD as much... we sold our first house and moved into a new big place, and we also set the date for our wedding and have been planning like mad!!! So yes the last 4 months have been crazy!!!!!!
However after alot of discussion in the last week or so we both realised that the new place and wedding mean ziltch... and now that we are back settled again we realise the only thing thats missing is still a baby.
We dont see what difference a wedding ring on my finger and a piece of paper will make.... we both just want a baby.
So we are back to TTC.... perhaps the 4 months will have done us the world of good as we did get very stressed at one point.
I have the fertility clinic again in January for our 6 month check up.
The only thing worrying me is i have not cancelled my wedding, its April 2009 so approx 16/17 months away, the very very very latest i can get a dress and organise things would be June next year. Iv booked my photographer, florist, band, piper, venue etc already so really its just for dresses cake favours invites etc.... we are praying i fall pregnant before June.
I am crossing my fingers and toes!!! But we have agreed mutually if it doesnt happen by June then we will go a head with the wedding and take a break again... as we dont want to go down the same route as we have been down.
Right... am away to read 4 months of posts to catch up on you all!!!
