Yes I did..... I was also terrified and really did not like the idea. But it was amazing when it actually happened.
You are going to think I am mad, but when it came to the time to walk to the theatre we were like kids on the way to see Santa Claus. I walked into theatre grinning like a cheshire cat! I felt so prepared for what was happening, I was in total control and I knew that in less than 20 minutes I would have my baby in my arms. I also had 16 hours of labour prior to the c-section which scared me more as it was totally unpredictable and I had no control over it so feel I have a bit of perspective (OK so I was only 4 cm dilated but even so!)
Your body will take over and get you through it. I am not denying the recovery is not difficult, but it is worth it. You get lots of pain killers, the scar is a lot smaller and lower than you imagine, I will definitely be in a bikini on holiday next year. The worst thing is sitting up from laying or standing up from sitting. But I am getting spoilt rotten by my husband, family and friends, which is great!
The most amazing part for me was the few huors afterwards as I started to regain the feeling in my legs etc...By the time I got taken back to the ward it was about 10pm, so DH helped settle me in and then it was just me and Bethany. They laid her in a see through cot right next to my bed level with my head and we laid and stared at each other for about 2 hours, she didn't cry, just lay there pulling cute faces at me and we held hands and I chatted to her. it still makes me cry now when I think back how amazing it was to look at her and think about what I had been through to get her. I would not change it for the world honestly.
Please do PM me if either you or ZS have any questions about the operation or anything.
You will be fine, trust me!
oh yes - by the way - go and buy yourselves a stack of black cotton mens boxer shorts a size too big for you (Primark have them 3 for £3 - I sent my sister on a mission!), they are the most comfortable thing you will ever wear. The maternity pads from Boots are good too as they have one sticky strip right down the centre and so the stick in a treat!
Best of luck for next week for your c-section
