DTD.

[Nonabean]

Or not...
My OH won't come near me. I had a bit of bloody discharge after I was at the MW on Friday. And now he won't touch me. I feel gross. I know where he's coming from, but it's all gone.
It's a bit like him saying... oh, you were on your period last week, so we're not having sex now.....

It's made me feel really shitty. I felt like I looked really good with my massive baby belly, and he can't even pretend to be interested.

 

[charlie26]

Awww hun maybe hes just scared of hurting the baby. xxx

 

[Nonabean]

He wasn't before. It's only since the midwife fiddled around up there on Friday.

I don't think he realises it's going to take weeks for me to heal. xx

 

[BabyBrain]

Tbh I'm surprised my OH has been near me at all throughout this pregnancy, he doesn't do "women's things" very well at all. Sounds to me like he's worried about something hun, maybe it's your waters going half way through? Would getting him drunk work. my OH gets very brave after a few shandys xxxxxxxxx

 

[charlie26]

Yes maybe if he knew how long after the birth u wont be dtd, maybe he would be taking every opertunity to get in there now while he can xxx

 

[leannesxb]

I had to chat to mine about it as he was scared he was gonna start something. Hes not been bothered by it at all through the pregnancy and has never found me more attractive than when I have been pregnant. We both felt better after the chat. Maybe just try and talk to him. I did throw in the whole it'll be weeks before I can dtd after a c-section which may of swayed it last night. lol. I was really frank and said I had felt he was so distant after the scares last week that I felt rejected and that I didn't always feel up to doing the deed but the intimacy we have always experienced had disappeared and that upset me. xxxx

 

[Esperanza84]

I would try to talk to him about it - tell him what you feel. I'm sure he doesn't mean to make you feel this way, he's probably just worried!!

xx