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Rachey

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your 'me' time?

before i moved in with OH, i had sooo much time alone (i sound like a loner lol:p) but i loved it! just having noone else to bother about..

i feel that since being pregnant im starting to reaaaaaally miss having time to myself :oooo:

i wouldnt change OH for the world, and im sooooo happy to be preggers :) but sometimes i just miss having time to myself, listening to music, reading, watching chick flicks, doing my nails, early nights, spending hours on the phone to the girlies :) just chilling out really without a care in the world :)

i tried saying to him that i want to have some time alone, but he thinks that i mean i dont want him, that hes done something wrong! he doesnt understand that i just want to chill myself :wall2:

any of the rest of you feeling this way? or is it just me lol :oooo: xxx
 
I've lived with my fella for 3 years but I do miss me time sometimes. I know what u mean xx
 
Constantly!!! But have felt that way for ever. I was an only child, my husband was one of four. I like it quiet, he gets nervous if there isnt anyone talking or some noise going on.

I'm always trying and failing to get time on my own. I'm desperate for it! I'm really worried about how resentful i'm going to feel with a kid as it will never ever let me have total alone time for years to come yet! Ahhhhhh!
 
I've lived with OH for about 6 years and since you mentioned it.... I can't remember the last time I watched a chic flick or did my nails. I can't say I miss it though but I am very aware that it won't be just us two for long. We are both really excited and looking forward to our little one arriving but I am looking forward to making the most of our last Christmas as just me and him. Our time really won't be our own once baby is here. This makes me sound very selfish, I know but don't get me wrong, I know our lives are going to change for the better.
 
I love time on my own too! Seriously, I have friends that can't bear a night on their own if their OH's are somewhere else, but my OH does night shift and I LOVE getting the house to myself for a bit! I'm a bit panicked because, although I am over the moon to be preggers, when the baby comes I will never ever be able to have pure selfish 'me' time anymore. Am trying to make the most of it while I'm pregnant!
 
I think the trick is to make time for me time, for both you and other half :)

I have been with hubby for near enough 10 years now and we have lived together for atleaat 9 and a half, i dont miss me time because we still have it every now and then whether its because im off work while he has work or if one of us goes out with friends for a few hours so the other has thr house to themselves, but we spend most of our home time together :)
 
I think the trick is to make time for me time, for both you and other half :)

I have been with hubby for near enough 10 years now and we have lived together for atleaat 9 and a half, i dont miss me time because we still have it every now and then whether its because im off work while he has work or if one of us goes out with friends for a few hours so the other has thr house to themselves, but we spend most of our home time together :)
 

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