Delayed m/c. No pain and minimal bleed. Decisions.

[DanniiM85]

Hello all,

I had a confirmed delayed m/c on Tuesday after about 4 weeks of continuous morning bitty bleeds.
I would have been 9 weeks.
I have been given the options on what route to take next and I am swaying towards the surgical under general anaesthetic.
I don't believe natural will be best as I fear of something happening whilst with my daughter (i'm a stay at home mum) and I was informed that I would need to stay in over night if I have the pills due to past caesarean birth.
I am back at EPAU on Friday to book me in.
Since yesterday afternoon I have had some bitty bleeding which ranges from brown to red, more than I had been previously experiencing and also zero pain.

Is it happening naturally?
Will I be turned away to have the surgical?

I just want to be prepared.

Thanks
D x

 

[Rach beattie]

Hi danni, I'm so so sorry that u have faced with this decision, there are no words of comfort during this time. For me I opted for surgical management as like u I was scared of when it would happen (I had just started a new job). From what I was told they can still go ahead with the procedure if u have started bleeding so long as obviously u don't pass the embryo before the operation. You will need someone with u for the rest of the day when u come home as u will have been under anesthetic. If u have any questions just ask. I no its a cliche thing to say but time is really a healer, I'm 7 months post mmc now and it has got much easier to process emotionally. Please take time for yourself and allow yourself to grieve during this horrific time. Thinking of u xx

 

[Kholl]

I don’t know what the best option is for you, I just wanted to say I am so, so terribly sorry you are going through this. There are no words to describe the heartbreak. I’m there with you right now and sending love.