dear best friend....

[itisbabytime]

Do not text me first thing to moan that u don't want to go to midwife appt becuase u don't want any more blood taken as you hate needles.

Thanks.... Just what I need the morning that I get proof that my clomid cycle has definately failed - many bfns and I'm spotting - get a fucking grip! I would happily take the world biggest needle right in my arse cheek if it meant I was preg.

She is really pissing me off, I know she isn't doing it on purpose but she knows exactly what I am going through.

Sorry for language and rant I just have to get it out.

 

[kirstymichelle]

Oh dear.

Although after all my tests and fainting at the last one i am scared in future of having them so i can sympathise with her on that .

But still a bit insensitive on her part with regards to you x x x

 

[Vickyxx]

Maybe you should have a chat with her hun, explain that you might not be the best person for her to unload her pregnancy troubles on given what you are going through xxx

 

[Gizzy Kelly]

I agree with what Vicky has said hon speak to her. It is insensative. Hugs

Gizzy xxx

 

[Cazzlou]

Do u think she realises what she's saying/doing?

When I was expecting my best friend had icsi and it failed and is still trying I never once mentioned about me and baby unless she asked. I felt I was sympathetic to her situation, she was happy for me but I made sure it was never in her face.

I'd be tempted to mention something to her

 

[Kay Kay]

My bestie is also preg and has been great and would never moan like this to me, infact I would like to hear a bit more from her! I think she is delibrately keeping stuff from me as she is sensitive to what I'm going through. Deffo have a wee word with your pal, sure she will apologise and think twice before moaning to you again xxx

ps - I had to endure listening to a woman in work today moaning about getting preg with her second child when her first baby was a year as it meant she would have less time with her first baby. I just smiled and said 'oh well you've got 2 healthy kids so it's not all bad'. She also confided they were both 'pill babies' and totally not planned. Really wanted to slap her hard lol

 

[itisbabytime]

Thanks girls. I think I will say something. I know she isn't being mean or boasting , she is just forgetful and excited I suppose. Usually I'm not so sensitive to her commensts but today was especially hard.

 

[PyscoFalcon]

Let it all out hun.
That's what we're here for *hugs*

 

[itisbabytime]

Its amazing how much better I feel after a rant on here! If I didn't have this place I'm worried I wud start smoking again which wud be daft as ttc is hard enough without that affecting it!

 

[Simoneh00]

Some folks don't think before they speak. My bestie is currently not speaking to me because I gave her my honest opinion but she's had me feeling like that a few times too xx