tambo1976
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My ex husband has CSA arrears of over £4000. About 6 months ago I was told that they were prosecuting him and going to put a charging order on his house. Obviously it takes a while to sort out court dates etc so it is a long slow process.
Last week my son told me that his Dad's house has now been repossessed and they are living at a family friends house.
I am very confident that the house has about £10-£15k equity and I'm sure my ex husband will end up with that amount but I was wondering is that it now? do I kiss goodbye to any arrears? will he just end up with the equity sat in his bank account and the csa won't be able to touch it? if that happens he'll just blow it on drugs and beer faster than it takes the csa to try and get arrears out of him.
It's so frustrating! this ******* "man" has never given me a penny for the kids, never bought them Birthday/Christmas presents and spends all his money on coke (not the liquid variety) and beer, I'm not suprised he has lost his house at all!
I know I should have some sympathy that he has lost his home but I have none, he is such a c*nt and this feels like he has just got away with his responsibilities once again!
Why do the *******s prosper and the honest. normal people struggle day in day out.
If anyone knows anything about repossession or csa arrears I'd like to hear what you think could happen next please x
Last week my son told me that his Dad's house has now been repossessed and they are living at a family friends house.
I am very confident that the house has about £10-£15k equity and I'm sure my ex husband will end up with that amount but I was wondering is that it now? do I kiss goodbye to any arrears? will he just end up with the equity sat in his bank account and the csa won't be able to touch it? if that happens he'll just blow it on drugs and beer faster than it takes the csa to try and get arrears out of him.
It's so frustrating! this ******* "man" has never given me a penny for the kids, never bought them Birthday/Christmas presents and spends all his money on coke (not the liquid variety) and beer, I'm not suprised he has lost his house at all!
I know I should have some sympathy that he has lost his home but I have none, he is such a c*nt and this feels like he has just got away with his responsibilities once again!
Why do the *******s prosper and the honest. normal people struggle day in day out.
If anyone knows anything about repossession or csa arrears I'd like to hear what you think could happen next please x