Confused

[Aisha83]

Hi, can someone help me please, I feel like I'm losing my mind. Me and partner have been trying to conceive for almost 12yrs. My period was due 22/03/18, it hasn't come. I have done about 6 tests all but one show a second faint pink line which I assume means pregnant, my breasts are very tender but my worry is that I am having serious stomach cramps pretty similar to my period pains and the lines are getting light not darker even though I'm using mfu, so am I pregnant or not. I can't see my Dr until Tuesday because of bank holiday. I'm sooo confused. Can anyone help??

 

[kj1]

Looks very positive to me Hun! I had really bad cramping around the time I had missed AF for a week or so, I think it’s normal as bean implants and gets comfy etc. Try not to stress too much - are you testing every 48 hours? Are you able to post a picture of your tests together in order so we can see colour difference?

 

[Aisha83]

Unfortunately no, my partner threw them away ��, however I'm even more confused now because I just did i digital clear blue test and it said not pregnant. I don't know what to think anymore. Im 34 so now I'm wondering if the menopause ��is an option. I hope not

 

[Elven]

That certainly looks positive! I think, might be wrong, the digital ones aren't as sensitive so you are more likely to get a negative. Hopefully if you take another test on Monday it should be slightly darker. x

 

[Aisha83]

Thanks for the replies, they have made me feel better

 

[BunnyN]

Definitely looks positive. Cramps are pretty common early in a healthy pregnancy so try not to worry about that unless you have bleeding. You say the tests are getting lighter. How far apart have you taken the tests? Were they all the same brand? Different brands have different sensitivity. As said above don't worry too much about the digital, they are not very sensitive.

 

[Aisha83]

Ok so did a test at the pharmacy and they confirmed that I gave them a positive test, however I have started bleeding. Is this normal or have I now suffered a miscarriage?

 

[SugaryIris]

Ok so did a test at the pharmacy and they confirmed that I gave them a positive test, however I have started bleeding. Is this normal or have I now suffered a miscarriage?

Could be ib or could be a chemical pregnancy. Try not to worry as stress isn’t good, I know easier said than done as I’ve been in that position! Leave it a few days and test again it’s the only way you’ll know xx fingers crossed for you

 

[Aisha83]

Update: hospital confirmed that I have had a miscarriage, after 12yrs of trying Im both sad and happy. Sad that I lost him/her but happy because now I know that maybe I can get pregnant again. Thank you to everyone that replied to my post x

 

[Smithy91]

So sorry for your loss Hun. Fingers crossed for a healthy pregnancy for you soon xx

 

[Rainingflowers]

So sorry to hear this. I'm glad you have taken something positive from it though!

 

[BunnyN]

So sorry for your loss. Don't be afraid to take time to grieve. I hope you can get pregnant again soon.