I dont know if anyone else has had this issue but me and my hubby dont usualy use lube when doing the deed but i decided to use the conceive plus to help his swimmers along on their journey, however its just too darn slippy! im only using 2ml and using an applicator so not actualy using hubby as the applicator and its just not working for us, so much that swimmers were a no show! im wondering if it would be any help to them to use the lube afterwards when there already in!? i appologise if this is a bit tmi for you ladies but i want to give them the best chance!