Can't seem to do anything right.

[Monkey]

I know I can't really complain as most of the time, I have a good relationship with my husband, but sometimes it just seems like things get too much or his condition (aspergers) gets to him or something. But during those times I find it so difficult to cope.

Today I just feel like crying my eyes out (and I can't blame it on hormones anymore). I have tried my hardest to make him happy, but nothing is working and it seems all my efforts have just made him want to get away from me. I have tried to give him the day off from looking after E as much as I can, taken all the nappy changes and playtime and such. I just wish I had some friends that I could go to and have some fun or support. Instead as usual, I'm stuck in the house as have no car and weather looks too icky to walk. I have no real friends in this country and no family to talk to. I feel so isolated and trapped. I don't know what to do.

Sorry, just needed to write my feelings down otherwise I was afraid it would set off my own depression too much.

 

[Sassysugar]

I'm sorry you're feeling down hun are there any baby groups you could go to where you could meet other mums?

Does your oh help you much as you need to be able to have a break too.

I don't know much about aspergers, could you talk to him about him pushing you away?

 

[Monkey]

I go to a baby and toddler group but it's only term only.

He will help out if she is quiet or it's not too early (when he's asleep) or late (if I want to sleep but E won't). He will take her once he wakes, for me to go back to bed for an hr or two.

His condition means he cant really talk about feelings or such.

 

[Noor]

Hi, i am sorry to hear that you are feeling so isolated. It can be misrable. Inbox me if you want to chat x