Hi Hope you don't mind me joining in your forum as I'm actually an expectant nanny - 4th grandchild on the way. My eldest daughter is called Antonia but she has always been known as Toni to us. She only got the posh version as my mum and sister were a bit worried about her having a 'boys' name and persuaded us to give the full version in case she didn't like Toni - needless to say she has been quite happy with that name. Funnily enough she has given her own daughter what might be considered a boys name - Jaime.