I had an EMCS, the next day or 2 weren't the most pleasant but from then onwards it was absolutely fine nothing to worry about.
This time I'm opting for a VBAC. Don't really like the idea of post-op complications especially as I'm a bit overweight. Also think it'll be easier to breastfeed.
Lots of reasons people may chose a C-Section. The same way lots of people chose to have surgical procedures done under general anaesthetic every day even though it can be done under local cheaper and easier. I don't see why women should get the bad rep.
If this were another operation say a hernia repair, and you were told it could be done without anaesthetic but you'd get the same amount of pain as a labour, plenty of people (especially men) would opt to be put out and nobody would judge and no surgeon would refuse.