Breech baby update!

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well i was really looking forward to seeing the midwife today and being told he is no longer breech and i could have a fairytale natural birth and everything would be wonderfull.
Didnt happen.
She says she has not seen a baby in this position so late on for a very long time, not only is he still breech, he has got himself into a very high up position against my ribs and stayed there growing and growing until he's pretty much wedged tightly in there. She says its unlikely that anything would turn him including trying to manually manipulate him so they wouldnt even try.
This does explain the broken rib though, as he had been pushing and pushing against it until they eventually started to crack.
So it will be a c-section for me. My biggest fear. Not only that, i was excited about going into labour and timing contractions, i know its silly but i wanted the whole normal birthing experience. i know however you have a baby is an amazing achievement but i wanted to be proud of myself for going through the labour and having him myself.
Oh well it just wont happen this time :cry:

But hey i know theres positives and this way i suppose i'll get my little boy the little bit earlier as they cant risk me going into labour, his positioning could be too dangerous for my body to cope with.
And i can guarantee him not being born on Christmas day as well :cheer: i really didnt want that (he's due Christmas eve)

xx
 
aw hun, i feel your disappointment ..... mine has only just turned

I had got used to the idea of a C-section though and just think, at least you will be booked in and know when your bubba will arrive, rather than playing a waiting game :wall:

He COULD still turn though, so fingers crossed
 
Aww Im sorry hes not turned hun but Im sure you will be able to have the chance to have a natural birth again in the future! :hug:
And yes look at the positives! You will know for sure when hes being born, not "is this it?" messing about for weeks lol, he will be a little earlier like you said and wont be christmas day as you said! Things work out there way for a reason! Good luck hun! :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
awww sorry to hear you are having problems. I cant beleive hes broken a rib! ouch!! Its always horrible when we have our idea of our "ideal birth" and that gets taken away from us.

A C section is not the end of the world though hun as long as you and baby are just fine. Besides theres no guarantees that even if he was the right way round it wouldnt have ended up with a c section anyway. You should be proud of yourself no matter what.

Claire xx
 
Sorry to hear he is still breech hun :hug: I had to have an Emergency C Section so if you have any questions then feel free to PM me :hug: :hug:
 
Aww hun, sorry to hear that. Main thing is that he is well and healthy. Have some of these :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
sorry to hear this hun i was praying he would turn for you :(

keep thinking of the positives you will know when your baby is coming and you dont have to wait the full 40 weeks to meet him. there is still time for him to turn my midwife wasnt worried about mine turning until this week hence the scan yesterday. Fingers crossed. whatever way he comes you has still managed to create a perfect little baby thats all yours :hug: :hug:
 
Ah Keelie, sorry to hear your little one hasn't turned, I had the same with my daughter, I was really looking forward (is that the right way of putting it/ perhaps scared :lol: ) to a natural birth, but she was also breech and there was no chance of turning her. So I ended up having an elective c-section. Initially I was a little disappointed, but as the big day got closer and closer I realised how exciting it was to know that on such and such a date I would be meeting my baby for the first time. I still would have rather been able to have experienced a natural birth, but at the end of the day, I now have a perfect little healthy daughter. I may end up having to have another section as this little one is also breech, I've got a scan tomorrow to check up on things, so may know then further what is happening.

If you fancy PM'ing me, feel free, and don't beat yourself up about it, however your baby arrives, as long as they get here safely that is the main thing.

Poor you with the broken rib!! :hug:
 

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