Hi
Well ive had my 3rd breakdown since having Kiara and i dont know what to do.
Some of you know that Bernies uncle has been staying with us for 3 months now , which means im taking care of a bay and cooking/cleaning up after 2 men .... bernie is fine cuz im used to him and hes my oh but someone who isnt is frusterating.
It didnthelp that Kiara didnt want to be put down for even a second all
y long... and i have a zillion things to do and cant do any of it.
Bernie came home i bit his head off and started crying he freaked at me saying what did i do .. i then said instead of yelling cant you just conme over to me and give me a hug soi can tell you.
He apologized and so did i.
I have no idea why i all of a sudden blow up like this it isnt fair to Bernie or Kiara.
I layed onthe ned couldnt stop crying and Kiara wa scrying and pulling on my shirt wanting up and i couldnt pick her up i feel like such crap
Even worse is we dont have time to sit and cuddle and talk no more it really sucks cuz everytime we turn around theres his uncle.. he is suppost to move out by the end of the month but i have my doubts about that.
Even our sex life sucks now ... were lucky if we have it once a week now its horrible..
Any suggestions on how to keep my cool?
His uncle cant be kicked out cuz heknows no one out here exceot benris cousin who is staying with my sis till they find a place together.
We can go out on a date but then we still come home to him.. still no good.
And whenever we go out to our friends he always follows my friend even mentioned tonight when is he leaving . BerNIE , Kiara and i were suppost to sleep over there tonight but he was gonna stay too so i told benrie lets just go home cuz its no fair tomy friend and i cant be myslef anyways.
Please please help.
My neighbour has a 7month old im watching her dog for a few hours right now and i told her what happened tonight and she finished my sentence and knew exactlywhat im talking about she said its happened toher quite a few times since giving birth and even though we tellour oh they dont knwo how we arefeeling.
neways imgonna get a few things done before bed.
xx Katrina
Well ive had my 3rd breakdown since having Kiara and i dont know what to do.
Some of you know that Bernies uncle has been staying with us for 3 months now , which means im taking care of a bay and cooking/cleaning up after 2 men .... bernie is fine cuz im used to him and hes my oh but someone who isnt is frusterating.
It didnthelp that Kiara didnt want to be put down for even a second all
y long... and i have a zillion things to do and cant do any of it.
Bernie came home i bit his head off and started crying he freaked at me saying what did i do .. i then said instead of yelling cant you just conme over to me and give me a hug soi can tell you.
He apologized and so did i.
I have no idea why i all of a sudden blow up like this it isnt fair to Bernie or Kiara.
I layed onthe ned couldnt stop crying and Kiara wa scrying and pulling on my shirt wanting up and i couldnt pick her up i feel like such crap
Even worse is we dont have time to sit and cuddle and talk no more it really sucks cuz everytime we turn around theres his uncle.. he is suppost to move out by the end of the month but i have my doubts about that.
Even our sex life sucks now ... were lucky if we have it once a week now its horrible..
Any suggestions on how to keep my cool?
His uncle cant be kicked out cuz heknows no one out here exceot benris cousin who is staying with my sis till they find a place together.
We can go out on a date but then we still come home to him.. still no good.
And whenever we go out to our friends he always follows my friend even mentioned tonight when is he leaving . BerNIE , Kiara and i were suppost to sleep over there tonight but he was gonna stay too so i told benrie lets just go home cuz its no fair tomy friend and i cant be myslef anyways.
Please please help.
My neighbour has a 7month old im watching her dog for a few hours right now and i told her what happened tonight and she finished my sentence and knew exactlywhat im talking about she said its happened toher quite a few times since giving birth and even though we tellour oh they dont knwo how we arefeeling.
neways imgonna get a few things done before bed.
xx Katrina