bit embarrased but...

[MrsWhite]

does a woman have to REALLY enjoy the BD to get preggers if you know what I mean?

I can REALLY enjoy it sometimes, but like tonight, am so tired will it matter if we just have a quicky... and i enjoy it but i dont.... REALLY enjoy it...

LOL... have i made it clear???

really i think we need to increase chances from all angles... but jus so tired tonight.....???

Thanks

xx

 

[megsmeadow]

Oh no, of course it's nicer for you but as long as his little swimmers are up there, that's all that really matters!! Have fun!!

 

[x_larlybelle_x]

i know what you mean, i do that!

don't know if it makes a difference tho!

 

[Emmamb]

Ur not alone Hun,think it's part of ttc,sex becomes a chore and it takes the enjoyment out of it. xxx

 

[JJ Mum]

I think they say that if you orgasam at the same time as the swimmers set off then that can help get them on there way if you know what I mean, but like the girls have said as long as they get there , thats the main thing - good luck X

 

[jarjar7]

I wouldn't worry hun, there are some women who cant orgasm through sex at all and they still have babies! Just think of it as an added bonus!!! Lol...
Good luck. xxxx

 

[Sam's Mum]

A huge percentage of women conceive without an orgasm - so a quickie should be just fine The contractions of the vagina do help to push the sperm towards the egg, but they're certainly not necessary to help them get there

 

[bwakeling]

It's more important that the bloke enjoys it - research has shown that if we're more aroused we produce more sperm! So get your fancy underwear on!!

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Heck no Mrswhite.....like some of the others have said baby making sex can become mechanical and definately a chore so as long as the little buggers get up there somehow their on their way home to roost....have fun trying tho and good luck xxx

 

[*kdak*]

Know exactly what you mean but hey we have to do it if we want a BFP

 

[PinkPunch]

It's more important that the bloke enjoys it - research has shown that if we're more aroused we produce more sperm! So get your fancy underwear on!!

I wouldn't say its more "important" as such, but it helps just as much as if the woman was excited So get YOUR sexy underwear on!

 

[Mrs_B]

I'd be happy just to get some bd done, lol.

 

[Chellybaby88]

I think BD can get a bit boring, that's why we try to do it even if theres no chance i can get pregnant and be more spontaneous.

I don't think it's too important as long as you are both enjoying it.

Jut think of it as getting all the sex out the way because you will prob feel too tired do it for a while after the baby is born.